What can I do to get him back?

[EmpressMel]

My e and I have been officially apart for around 6 months now. The back-story is as follows.

 

5 yrs ago my them b/f, my ex and my self all worked together, I broke up with me b/f to give us some space and work on our relationship. I went out a lot with friends a including my ex.

 

We ended up having really strong feelings for each other and he asked me not to get back with me b/f.

 

In the end I said that I couldn't be with him as I was afraid of being with some1 new and the relationship was pretty messy and I didn't feel right about being with some1 new when they don't really know me etc.

 

We ended up drifting apart and 2 yrs later I bumped into my ex just as my old relationship had ended.

 

We were both single and wanted to give it a try again. I was still in touch with my ex and found it very hard to tell him I was in a relationship, as they knew each other.

 

My ex and I had a wonderful 4 moths together even with my old b/f trying to break us up and finding out that we were together.

 

I was too chicken to tell him and it all came to a head.

 

Not long after I became pregnant with my ex's baby, which I didn't want, but we talked and talked and kept her.

 

Our relationship was on really rocky ground and go worse and worse as my ex felt he couldn't trust me because of all the things my ld b/f had said about me and he even didn't believe the baby was his.

 

He has real issues with the fact he feels I put him second in our relation twice now and that I didn't love him enough to do the right thing when I had a chance.

 

I tried REALLY hard to make it up to him every day to the point where he would just walk all over me. We would break up get back together over and over.

 

4 weeks after our baby was born I found out that he was planning on moving in with his friends and had never told me. When I confronted him he told me to find somewhere else to live, as he didn't want to be with me anymore.

 

As I had no money or job I had to move in with him and him friend. All the time he is still sleeping with me telling me he loves me and every now and then saying he wants us to get back together. But after telling me that he doesn’t want that again.

 

This still carried on after I moved out. he has been kissing other girls one of whom I know and I wasn't happy. Since I told him how I felt about it he started to treat me like a leper.

 

I have also found out that he has been sending text messages to this new girl asking to meet up for a drink.

 

I'm really hurt and love him so much, he still sleeps with me and when we do I can tell he really loves me still but his pride wont let him give us a proper chance!

 

How can I get him to see that we are able to be happy again?