wumbo6 Posted January 10, 2007 Share Posted January 10, 2007 i have this whole mess. i hang out with a close circle of friends(which everyone in this story is a part of) it all started with my best friend liking this girl. the girl liked me and my friend found someone else. the girl continued to send me good vibes(always touching me, resting her head on my shoulder, paying special attention to me, ect.) and eventually started calling me her "boyfriend" jokingly in front of everyone. this went on for a few weeks until one time at our circle's christmas party. at the party she was sending really bad vibes out to me. the whole party she never approached me or initiated a conversation. when talking to other people she would be having a conversation and i would hear "yea i'm mad at derick(me)" i continued to ask her what's wrong and she would giggle and say she's mad at me. like 3 days after the party she instant messages me and tells me that she is sorry for how she was at the party and she was "pms-ing" when we went back to school she started acting really differently. she wouldnt even sit next to me anymore at lunch. and as the week went on, she began flirting(resting head on shoulder etc.) with the other guys in the circle(my best friend too) now she pays less attention to me than my other friends. but she still calls me her boyfreind. so i am asking. what's up with this girl? did i take too long to ask her out? i really dont know where i went wrong. this is breaking my heart every day over and over. thanks a lot Link to post Share on other sites
Mezzi Posted January 10, 2007 Share Posted January 10, 2007 Out of curiousity how old are you? She seems really immature and immediately strangely Jackie from the 70's show came to mind. lol I dont think you should be sad because eventually she would have probably moved on to one of your friends. Link to post Share on other sites
typical Posted January 10, 2007 Share Posted January 10, 2007 She seems really immature Yes, I am guessing she is in her teens, as in 14,15... when talking to other people she would be having a conversation and i would hear "yea i'm mad at derick(me)" Yes, I am sure that she said it just loud enough for you to hear, no matter where you were at the party. tells me that she is sorry for how she was at the party and she was "pms-ing" Thats a rather strange side effect, dont you think? And she seemed to be in a good mood towards everyone else, even giggling at what not. Obvious tactic to make you jealous: and as the week went on, she began flirting(resting head on shoulder etc.) with the other guys in the circle(my best friend too) Ahhh...behold the classic game of cat and mouse: now she pays less attention to me than my other friends. but she still calls me her boyfreind. She has got you right where she wants you: this is breaking my heart every day over and over. what's up with this girl? did i take too long to ask her out? i really dont know where i went wrong. this is breaking my heart every day over and over. thanks a lot She is becoming impatient. If you dont ask her out soon, she just might do something drastic. Like dye her hair jet black and french kiss your best friend...in front of you. She sounds slightly sadistic like that. Link to post Share on other sites
vanessabg Posted January 11, 2007 Share Posted January 11, 2007 Its sounds like,whatever your decision about her you just take it immediately,if you want her so just ask her out otherwise she just burst your balloon due to her teen age thoughts. Link to post Share on other sites
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