Got a Question!!!!

[turtle32]

Ok i posted on here awhile back, but i will just qucikly tell you what happened I had been dating a girl for 8months she was great but i didnt show her much attention i was stupid and now see my mistake i really loved this girl but was afraid to show it. But anyway when we broke up i worte her a letter and told her how i felt and it was sincere but we didnt get back together. It has been 4 and half months of no contact and alot of people tell me if i really love her that i need to fight for her or to let her know that i really cared for her now mind you im not setting and sulking over her i have been dating and all is ok i do still miss her and would love to have another chance just wondering if i should maybe send her an email and tell her my feelings. She was seeing a guy dont know if she still is i just really didnt try and show her how much i wanted her and if she was waiting to see if i really did care about her cause i ahve not seen her or contacted her in any form. Just wondering. Thanks

[L-FUZZ]

i take it she broke up with you ?..

 

all situations are different.. but if you have not contacted her since the letter and that was four months and that means no texting no emails,,,

I would suppose you could try and drop a quick line to say hi how are you?. happy new year,, somethin to that effect.. but not to expect anything in return,, for then you might be let down. but atleast you tryed. Others will say to continue on the path of no contact.. truely it is all up to you.

 

I dropped a line to my ex boyfriend(we were together a yr and broke up in Oct.,,whom never gave me answers to why we broke up) on thanksgiving and he returned it,, and some contact since but he had meeting up for a drink in the new year,,, but i have not heard from him.. so i have decided to not contact him.

My point is it becomes a frustrating game,, and continues hope for me,,

it is your decision what you want to do