JerryDen Posted February 18, 2007 Share Posted February 18, 2007 Hey, I am currently studying for the CPA exam. It is boring as hell but I have to do it. I turn down all my friends whenever they ask me to go out, but sometimes I change my mind because I just can't stand studying for another minute. And plus right now is tax season. So work is really busy and stressful. The cpa exams are offered in jan. and feb. and not in march, so i assume your BF has an exam either in jan. or feb. But, good news for you. This won't last. There are four exams for the CPA. After he passes all four, he's all yours. From a CPA standpoint, he is stressed from 60 hours/week of work plus studying. give him a break. This is a hard exam and if you don't pass it, you need to wait for the next testing window to take it again. Oh yeah, each exam cost $150 plus test prep. Maybe if he doesn't pass the exam, his work won't compt. the expenses. Just my two cents. Link to post Share on other sites
Violet_Sky Posted February 18, 2007 Share Posted February 18, 2007 and never had arguments or rough patches with her boyfriend, acted a little needy or insecure with a man, you have to understand that, Lauriebel, she's perfect. That's why she's in a wonderful relationship with a man right now and has never been dumped in her LIFE!!! gee thanks..its not like i totally freaked out on him i just got a little upset because i dont see him that often, and he has like no free time as it is, so it meant i would see him even less. but i apologized and he forgave me and now i have been NOTHING but supportive. Link to post Share on other sites
Star Gazer Posted February 18, 2007 Share Posted February 18, 2007 and never had arguments or rough patches with her boyfriend, acted a little needy or insecure with a man, you have to understand that, Lauriebel, she's perfect. That's why she's in a wonderful relationship with a man right now and has never been dumped in her LIFE!!! What a catty thing to do - bring up a post almost a month old. Before you make comments like this, I suggest you review the follow-up to this on all of LB's other threads. You're trying to draw up an argument where one doesn't exist. Read this thread: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showthread.php?p=1076675#post1076675 I've fully acknowledged MY faults. Link to post Share on other sites
Violet_Sky Posted February 18, 2007 Share Posted February 18, 2007 I wasn't aware of your previous posts, or relationships past, you were in,just generally stating that it's probable we have all exhibited these behaviors in dating. I just thought your comment was kind of stinging to Lauriebel, plus I don't think her bf was 100% perfect, I mean CPA exam or not, it's really rude to go back and forth cancelling plans. Sorry. Didn't mean to offend I just thought you were a little harsh on Lauriebel. Link to post Share on other sites
Star Gazer Posted February 18, 2007 Share Posted February 18, 2007 I wasn't aware of your previous posts, or relationships past, you were in,just generally stating that it's probable we have all exhibited these behaviors in dating. I just thought your comment was kind of stinging to Lauriebel, plus I don't think her bf was 100% perfect, I mean CPA exam or not, it's really rude to go back and forth cancelling plans. Sorry. Didn't mean to offend I just thought you were a little harsh on Lauriebel. Admittedly, I was harsh. But only because I believed she needed a wakeup call. Good advice is not that which coddles someone and tells them it's okay to continue on with their nonsense...as so many women here do with one another. Those of us with experience have a responsibility in my opinion to share it. The end result ... at least from what I've read ... is that LB has grown and seen some of her mistakes. Her posts in response to others' proves this. Little LB is a-growin' up! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lauriebell82 Posted February 18, 2007 Author Share Posted February 18, 2007 woah guys dont fight..this shouldnt even be an issue right now. first of all now that the cpa exam is over things are back to normal. we are spending the entire weekend together and he thinks he passed his test so leaving him alone was worth it. he's going to be a cpa!!! and i couldnt be prouder. yes i get dependent occasionally, its difficult not to when u really love someone. i'm trying not to be so emotionally depedent and thanks to stargazer being harsh, i was able to realize that my emotional dependence was based on the situation with my mom and i did things to change it. so things are absolutely fine between me and my bf. thanks to u both for ur advice. Link to post Share on other sites
Violet_Sky Posted February 18, 2007 Share Posted February 18, 2007 we weren't 'fighting' just discussing and it was settled already. Link to post Share on other sites
Topper Posted February 18, 2007 Share Posted February 18, 2007 Darn, I was getting the popcorn ready I was hoping to sit back and watch a good cat fight. Link to post Share on other sites
BeckyMP Posted February 19, 2007 Share Posted February 19, 2007 Hey there, I wouldn't worry too much right now. Just give him a little bit of space until he takes his test. I think you are thinking too much about him. Why not take some time for yourself while he's in study mode and hang out with friends? Maybe you could use a break and get a better perspective on things. I know I tend to do that in relationships. I'll spend so much time with someone I start to constantly analyze everything and feel insecure. At that point it's usually better to just take time for myself and do something I enjoy on my own to help gain that confidence back. That way I don't feel like I'm relying on someone to make me feel better. Besides, once you stay away for a bit he might just miss you . Basically, if he wants space, give him space and go have fun without him for awhile. Link to post Share on other sites
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