nuttytart Posted September 3, 2002 Share Posted September 3, 2002 me and my b/f have been together for about 2 years. we get on great, but just lately we have not been getting on that good, it breaking my heart as we love each other very much. i just need some advice how not to be so moody to sort of chill out a bit like when we first started to go out. it also make it hard as we live together and im always on his case. help me as i dont want lose him. Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted September 3, 2002 Share Posted September 3, 2002 You make your post sound like you have absolutely no control over your feelings and behavior. It sounds like you may need to spend more time doing things alone or with friends. More time apart is called for. Being together constantly is not productive for any relationship, especially if you're hoping to make it last. Separate activities and separate friends...as well as common activities and common friends...enrich a relationship and help constantly renew it. But you control your feelings and your behavior. If you don't think so, get counselling or medical treatment ASAP!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Ally Boo Posted September 3, 2002 Share Posted September 3, 2002 Put yourself in his shoes. No one is ever going to be "perfect" to live with. Just accept the fact that he's going to do things that bother you, and you will bother him. And when he starts to get under your skin, discuss it....make your feelings known and encourage him to do the same. Link to post Share on other sites
velvet Posted September 3, 2002 Share Posted September 3, 2002 I'm happy that your r/s has been going strong for two years now. You shouldn't let any petty shake things up. For two years now you should have learned allot from each other, like your likes/dislikes, habits good/bad and so on. Why just recently have you been cranky with each other? Could it be a change in your lifestyles? Change in love for each other? The best way to analyze it would be to step back, take a long deep breath while giving each other space. Not temporally separate space just your own life space, taking care of the part of your life hes not involved in! Take your mind off of him and focus on other things in your life. I do believe that if you give yourselves that much than you realize that you find yourself looking forward to him. When you do the answer should come. Link to post Share on other sites
Author nuttytart Posted September 7, 2002 Author Share Posted September 7, 2002 thanx u all for replying to my " help with my relationship" it was good advice thanks anyway. Link to post Share on other sites
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