coldincolorado Posted January 14, 2007 Share Posted January 14, 2007 I am so confused about this situation I am in. Please read about it and let me know what you think. I was contacted about 3 months ago by an ex girlfriend whom I haven't spoken to in about 5 years. She had just gotten out of a relationship in which she had a child and was going through old pictures. The pictures reminded her of all the good feelings associated with me and our time together and I was on her mind for about 2 weeks before she called. Our relationship ended because we were young (in high school), I moved away for college, and I had some major trust issues. It was a mutual break up with no hard feelings by either of us. I have always thought that she was incredibly beautiful. I would go through old pictures myself, getting butterflies whenever I would see us together. She is still unbelieveably beautiful, more so now than when we were first together. However, I do not know what her feelings for me are. Obviously she is interested in being around me (we have gone out a couple times but not necessarily on dates) but I don't know if that is where it stops. My problem is that she is incredibly hard to read, giving me signals that she interested (laughing at all my jokes, smiling at me, etc.) but she also gives me other signals that say no. Should I tell her that I am becoming interested in rekindling something with her after only 1 month? Should I wait and see how things progress? Should I call her more often than once a week? WHAT SHOULD I DO??? Link to post Share on other sites
luvtoto Posted January 14, 2007 Share Posted January 14, 2007 She had just gotten out of a relationship in which she had a child I would be very aprehensive towards her. You are at risk of getting hurt. Link to post Share on other sites
magda Posted January 14, 2007 Share Posted January 14, 2007 Perhaps you could ask her on a date that is certainly and without question a "date". If she comes along, then you have your answer: she is interested in pursuing a possible relationship. Then you can discuss things if the date goes well. Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted January 19, 2007 Share Posted January 19, 2007 ask her and don't wait before she gets snapped up dates are fun go slow, no pressure, play it kewl - let her let you know when she is ready and NEVER JUMP THE GUN i am in a great mood today Link to post Share on other sites
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