Guest Posted January 14, 2007 Share Posted January 14, 2007 I always hear things like, "if u love something let it go...if it was urs it would come back to you," and stuff like "you don't know what you have until it is gone"...so I want to know if you dump someone because you wanted to see what else was out there...and then you didn't remain friends with the ex (made nc) then what are the chances of coming back to that person you dumped if you regret it later or feel that he/she was the best thing to ever happen to you? would you even consider contacting that person you once dumped? male/female opinions please share Link to post Share on other sites
StubbornOne Posted January 16, 2007 Share Posted January 16, 2007 Every serious relationship that I have been in where I have been dumped...the ex always comes crying back to me. But, in the past it has always been too late. Here I am again (day 5), not responding to the pathetic attempts at contact. If he truely wants me back...he will do everything in his power to get me. Like I said, the attempts are pathetic at this point. Drunk dialing, texting...I deserve a sober phone call with some massive ASS KISSING. I agree with the statement, "they never appreciate what they have until it's gone". Link to post Share on other sites
DyingHeart Posted January 17, 2007 Share Posted January 17, 2007 That statement goes for me too. I've been in a long relationship, I made mistakes and now he's gone. He was a keeper too. Link to post Share on other sites
Rooster_DAR Posted January 17, 2007 Share Posted January 17, 2007 Very very slim. Link to post Share on other sites
Go_Chicago Posted January 17, 2007 Share Posted January 17, 2007 Whatever ass kissing you do, make sure it is via phone. It is too easy to misread text's and emails. Plus, phone allows her/him to hear the sincerity in your voice - you are also putting in the time, regardless of how many attempts it takes for her/him to pick up the phone in the first place since you are in NO contact. Don't go overboard - once a week contact via phone for x amount of months till she/he picks up will indicate that you won't let this die. Don't block your number and don't leave voicemail. Voicemail is not person-to-person. Chica Link to post Share on other sites
amaysngrace Posted January 17, 2007 Share Posted January 17, 2007 I like your sayings. I have one: it's better to make a new mistake than to repeat an old one. In light of that, let it go and move on. Link to post Share on other sites
L-FUZZ Posted January 17, 2007 Share Posted January 17, 2007 i could only hope that my ex was thinking what you are right now. I'm dating new people now but still think of my ex. So screw it ,, i say give it a try. Can't lose when you already lost. Link to post Share on other sites
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