frannie Posted January 16, 2007 Share Posted January 16, 2007 Or it really is an OW, a young foolish girl who needs to have her eyes opened. I hope to GOD she's not for real....Cuz if she is, boy-she is has alot to learn about life... lol... could be. Well that's what I said in my first post... it's a fun proposition to get involved with a MM at work... til you've actually done it. If it really were 'a hottie' taunting people about being able to take away their husbands, surely it would be on some other board. No one here is going to be interested... we're just a bunch of saddos with half a man Link to post Share on other sites
NoIDidn't Posted January 16, 2007 Share Posted January 16, 2007 The attitude and signature gave her away!!!!!!! Didn't catch the signature. But I did catch the attitude, and it fits someone that is young, immature, and insecure. This person is suffering from FALSE self-esteem, if they have any at all. Its all based on who wants them. Not on what they have to offer others in any type of relationships. I dunno, I can't say this is a troll. I definitely don't make the assumption that its a BS, because a BS wouldn't keep posting such nonsense as a defense. This girl has been told by a male poster that he wouldn't be interested in her at all, and she keeps saying she's "hot". Definitely a misguided youth, we have lots of those these days. Unfortunately. Link to post Share on other sites
NoIDidn't Posted January 16, 2007 Share Posted January 16, 2007 Or it really is an OW, a young foolish girl who needs to have her eyes opened. I hope to GOD she's not for real....Cuz if she is, boy-she is has alot to learn about life... This is exactly what I think we are dealing with. A child who unfortunately now passes for an adult in age only. Link to post Share on other sites
herenow Posted January 16, 2007 Share Posted January 16, 2007 OK, Miss Hot Fresh ****. If the other guy is not married, what's stopping you from ****ing him right now? Could it be that he won't touch your hot body with a ten foot pole? If you can get anyone you want, then go for it, but your looks will only take you so far and when they are gone, you will be a washed up old *****. Or maybe you already are one and this is your way of reliving your colorful youth. If this is true, you are probably the saddest example of today's youth I have ever had the misfortune of coming across. Link to post Share on other sites
noforgiveness Posted January 16, 2007 Share Posted January 16, 2007 PollyPocket? Now I think there could be something in this! V bitter indeed. Of course she is bitter. How would you expect her to feel? It's bad enough she is in this crappy situation but she comes on here and there is one poster that basically mirrors her exact situation and this poster loves to talk about her her MM just married his wife because she was pregnant etc etc but this MM has been married to his wife for at least 15 years so that doesn't sound like married because you were pregnant relationship. Link to post Share on other sites
herenow Posted January 16, 2007 Share Posted January 16, 2007 Also, if you're so hot and everyone wants you, why do you have the time to hang around and talk to us hags? Anyone remember the song everybody want's you? I think there is a line that says you get your pension in loneliness and alcohol. That's your future Miss Hottie, loneliness and alcohol. Link to post Share on other sites
noforgiveness Posted January 16, 2007 Share Posted January 16, 2007 lol... could be. Well that's what I said in my first post... it's a fun proposition to get involved with a MM at work... til you've actually done it. If it really were 'a hottie' taunting people about being able to take away their husbands, surely it would be on some other board. No one here is going to be interested... we're just a bunch of saddos with half a man when i first came here there was a poster who LOVED to taunt me about her mm and she has since reinvented herself in many names. Link to post Share on other sites
PoshPrincess Posted January 16, 2007 Share Posted January 16, 2007 Of course she is bitter. How would you expect her to feel? It's bad enough she is in this crappy situation but she comes on here and there is one poster that basically mirrors her exact situation and this poster loves to talk about her her MM just married his wife because she was pregnant etc etc but this MM has been married to his wife for at least 15 years so that doesn't sound like married because you were pregnant relationship. OK, NoForgiveness, that was unfair of me. I DO understand why Polly is bitter, who wouldn't be? I just think some of her comments are unfair on people. There's no need to be bitchy as we've all come here for help, advice and moral support - not bashing (although saying that I don't mind what advice (harsh or otherwise) I am given personally). I am not sure if you are referring to me and my past sitch so I won't bang on unncessarily. I have read Polly's threads and, yes, I can identify with her sitch mirroring mine. As I have said to her, I can't understand why she would want to be with her husband when he has admitted he is in love with someone else but each to their own, of course. SHE has freely admitted that she married because she was pregnant too so it DOES happen, for whatever reason. Some people are just happy to settle for less in life than others are and good on them! Some feel they are 'doing the right thing', particularly if they have strong religious or moral beliefs. There are all sorts of reasons other than love why couples stay together, or even marry in the first place. Ours is not to reason why and all that..... Link to post Share on other sites
herenow Posted January 16, 2007 Share Posted January 16, 2007 when i first came here there was a poster who LOVED to taunt me about her mm and she has since reinvented herself in many names. Wonder who that could be. I heard that Bobby Sherman is in town. Oh, but he's married. Won't stop her, I'm sure she'll be in the front row. Link to post Share on other sites
frannie Posted January 16, 2007 Share Posted January 16, 2007 when i first came here there was a poster who LOVED to taunt me about her mm and she has since reinvented herself in many names. I mean why would she be here on the OM/OW boards..? Where OM/OW are looking for help. Surely if she wanted to taunt BSs she'd be off on Infidelity somewhere..? Link to post Share on other sites
ThumbingMyWay Posted January 16, 2007 Share Posted January 16, 2007 Didn't catch the signature. But I did catch the attitude, and it fits someone that is young, immature, and insecure. This person is suffering from FALSE self-esteem, if they have any at all. Its all based on who wants them. Not on what they have to offer others in any type of relationships. Definitely a misguided youth, we have lots of those these days. Unfortunately. I was thinking the same thing last night after reding this thread. she is 20...I am 36....16 year difference....thats ONE generation of education/school years....and there are alot of kids just like her....very liberal and very ME oriented....sad.....what happened...... but then I think of what kids see and do noadays...the clothes, the TV shows, the music,....just look at the Hollywood stuff....Lindsay Lohan, Paris, Brittney.....monkey see monkey do I guess Link to post Share on other sites
frannie Posted January 16, 2007 Share Posted January 16, 2007 I was thinking the same thing last night after reding this thread. she is 20...I am 36....16 year difference....thats ONE generation of education/school years....and there are alot of kids just like her....very liberal and very ME oriented....sad.....what happened...... but then I think of what kids see and do noadays...the clothes, the TV shows, the music,....just look at the Hollywood stuff....Lindsay Lohan, Paris, Brittney.....monkey see monkey do I guess Well that sort of makes sense, but what doesn't make sense is... why would this person come onto a message board asking for 'help' (only not really) and then getting all 'I AM HOT'... and 'yah I dare you' about things..? Why not just be out there doing all those reprehensible things? Doesn't ring true at all. Link to post Share on other sites
PoshPrincess Posted January 16, 2007 Share Posted January 16, 2007 I was thinking the same thing last night after reding this thread. she is 20...I am 36....16 year difference....thats ONE generation of education/school years....and there are alot of kids just like her....very liberal and very ME oriented....sad.....what happened...... but then I think of what kids see and do noadays...the clothes, the TV shows, the music,....just look at the Hollywood stuff....Lindsay Lohan, Paris, Brittney.....monkey see monkey do I guess I'm sure a lot of us were no different at that age! I have to hold my hands up to that although I got involved in unsuitable Rs because I had no self-esteem whatsoever. I certainly wish I had her self-confidence!!!! In fact, I wish I was that sure of myself even now! Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted January 16, 2007 Share Posted January 16, 2007 monkey see monkey do I guess True!! The thing is, in afew years or maybe even 20 years she'll look back at her behaviour and (hopefully) realize how wrong she was... Link to post Share on other sites
ThumbingMyWay Posted January 16, 2007 Share Posted January 16, 2007 Well that sort of makes sense, but what doesn't make sense is... why would this person come onto a message board asking for 'help' (only not really) and then getting all 'I AM HOT'... and 'yah I dare you' about things..? Why not just be out there doing all those reprehensible things? Doesn't ring true at all. personally I think this is a selfish generation who look at the OUTSIDE and MATERIAL things rather than having inner acceptance and compasion. they want it all....no matter what....theres no bounderies anymore....everything is game..... Link to post Share on other sites
herenow Posted January 16, 2007 Share Posted January 16, 2007 Well that sort of makes sense, but what doesn't make sense is... why would this person come onto a message board asking for 'help' (only not really) and then getting all 'I AM HOT'... and 'yah I dare you' about things..? Why not just be out there doing all those reprehensible things? Doesn't ring true at all. Good point frannie. Why doesn't she just do it? She did say that one of them was not married. What's stopping her? Where is she now? I think she wanted lots of drama and we didn't give it to her. I think she was just a bored sad person with nothing better to do than start this post. I hope you don't believe that it was a BS, we do have better things to do than piss everyone off. Link to post Share on other sites
ThumbingMyWay Posted January 16, 2007 Share Posted January 16, 2007 I'm sure a lot of us were no different at that age! well....I sure wasnt that way....was never instilled in me to be selfish... I just couldnt imagine having this attitude.... "I am hot and I know what I want" and if that is to "f**k a married man, so be it".... where are the morals and integrity in that? SELFISH wants to the disregard of others....ME ME ME.... sad I hope when OP is 45, her 45 year old husband meets a young girl just like her....and then she will understand how wrong her thinking is Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted January 16, 2007 Share Posted January 16, 2007 SELFISH wants to the disregard of others....ME ME ME.... Exactly. Unfortunately due to Hollywood romances, marriages etc, and in the movies- it's being displayed the people are dispensible. Look at Jen/Ben. Jen/Brad... How many people do you know in REAL LIFE that end a relationship, the love of your life and within WEEKS, sometimes days, they're happily inlove with someone else and engaged. WTF is that! Link to post Share on other sites
NoIDidn't Posted January 16, 2007 Share Posted January 16, 2007 True!! The thing is, in afew years or maybe even 20 years she'll look back at her behaviour and (hopefully) realize how wrong she was... I hope it doesn't sound like I wish it would happen to her, but the understanding that our past actions were reprehensible usually comes when someone else does it to us. Link to post Share on other sites
ThumbingMyWay Posted January 16, 2007 Share Posted January 16, 2007 not to bring religion into this.... but the more I try to be a good christian thru my works and thought....the harder it is when I see people like the OP. I feel surrounded by people who are selfish and live for the day to the disregard of others.....the "I want mine" attitude theres more to this thing called life than looking HOT and SEX, but when we are bombarded around every corner with tempation and society hyping it...its hard to stay the course of TRUTH in witness...when the person you are trying to reach has NO CLUE or DESIRE to give.....they much rather know what they get out of it... Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted January 16, 2007 Share Posted January 16, 2007 theres more to this thing called life than looking HOT and SEX Yup. HOT and SEX isn't gonna be there for the rough times life throws at people. Link to post Share on other sites
ThumbingMyWay Posted January 16, 2007 Share Posted January 16, 2007 I look at life this way... those who are first will be last and those who are last will be first... dont get me wrong....I got my eye on the prize too.....but I aint going to put myself ahead of others to get it.... Link to post Share on other sites
herenow Posted January 16, 2007 Share Posted January 16, 2007 well....I sure wasnt that way....was never instilled in me to be selfish... I just couldnt imagine having this attitude.... "I am hot and I know what I want" and if that is to "f**k a married man, so be it".... where are the morals and integrity in that? SELFISH wants to the disregard of others....ME ME ME.... sad I hope when OP is 45, her 45 year old husband meets a young girl just like her....and then she will understand how wrong her thinking is I would imagine that when her H is out with his younger OW, she will still be ****ing other married men. She'll probably start during the engagement. Or, she may be one of those that never get married and just spend their whole lives ****ing married men. That's exactly what my H's 50 year old ex-OW has done. How sad indeed! Link to post Share on other sites
herenow Posted January 16, 2007 Share Posted January 16, 2007 Yup. HOT and SEX isn't gonna be there for the rough times life throws at people. This girl's HOT and SEX is going to creat her rough times if she doesn't learn that lesson soon. WWIS, I just noticed how many posts you have had. Wow, you are the queen of LS. Link to post Share on other sites
yousaveme Posted January 16, 2007 Share Posted January 16, 2007 This has to be an evil twisted game. I havent checked. But has this lunatic responded lately? Link to post Share on other sites
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