ladies ... rip me apart

[Krytellan]

I just love that you brush all the constructive comments under the carpet and tackle the negative ones. That tells me that you love drama... another trait that women likely despise about you.

[CardPlay3r]

OK kindred just curious, what rules/laws do you think should there be in place to keep women "in check" ?

 

Oh, and are you alphamale by any chance? :lmao:

[CaliGuy]

I have the balls and maturity to take action, things do not change themselves.

 

Neither of which can be done by b*tching about it on a message board.

 

To change the world, you first have to change yourself.

[Star Gazer]

So far I am:

 

troll

narcissistic

arrogant

jerk

self centered

 

I think I missed a few.

 

Now where's the bimbo from Cali when u need her?

 

I believe you were referring to me? I'm right here, sweetheart.

 

And those you missed include:

Selfish

Juvenile

Condescending

Pompous

Disdainful

Unkind

Rude

Malicious

Unpleasant

Insensitive

Antagonizing

Attacking

Mean Spirited

Ignorant

 

And yes, a TROLL.

 

For your edification: "In Internet terminology, a troll is a person who enters an established community such as an online discussion forum and intentionally tries to cause disruption, often in the form of posting messages that are inflammatory, insulting, incorrect, inaccurate, or off-topic, with the intent of provoking a reaction from others."

[Krytellan]

*just loves anonymous bickering with simpletons*

 

[COLOR=black][FONT=Times New Roman]Oh, and genius? Conditioning is behavioral, Freud is psychoanalytic. In no way do these schools have similar ideologies. Pavlov did conditioning... he is a behaviorist... not psychoanalytic. Again, different. I would return those Psychology books if I were you... they wronged you.[/FONT][/COLOR]

[RecordProducer]

Kindred_Soulman, I didn't read your posts, other than the first one, but I browsed your thread a bit and see that people are calling you on your arrogance and hatred toward all women. I can identify with you so please keep reading.

 

Just like any person who has a problem with a certain group of people, you start wondering if it's YOU or THEM. And I see that you're entertaining both options. On one hand, you try to find your faults; on the other hand, you think it's them.

 

I'll tell you what it is: it's both you and them. You are different from them and can't fit in. Why can't you fit in? Are you worse or better? I'll tell you something, you are definitely different. You can't be worse, because much worse people than you hook up with THEM and many of them are definitely worse than you.

 

I will present my case to you. I grew up in an environment where I felt since the day I was a baby that I didn't belong there. I felt like a bird living in a mud with frogs. The frogs were abusing me for being different and I never learned to jump. I wanted to fly. To make things worse, when I was 14, I moved to Serbia and I am not Serbian at all. For 16 years I felt like a complete foreigner in every aspect. The Serbian men have this peasant mentality, they don't treat women with respect, and the culture is on a very low level. I felt better than everyone. I knew i was better than ALL of them. I never met anyone that I liked there (including my ex-husband with whom I fell in love). For a while I was lowering my criteria, but then I realized that I can't live in a pond full of frogs. And yes, they were all frogs. Some were bad frogs, some were good frogs, but they were all frogs. And I was a bird. If you think this sounds narcissistic, I'll give you an example. Imagine that an American women moves to Saudi Arabia - of course EVERYONE there will be the wrong guy for her, because of their mentality, right?

 

Finally, I put my profile on an international dating site and started meeting men that I actually liked. My self-esteem went up 10,000 feet. I felt connection with the people from the western part of the world. I met one guy who was totally on my level, but we didn't click. Then I met another guy and he became my husband. He is totally in my league and I know that I would have never met anyone like him in my country.

 

I don't know how you can apply this information to your case, but I think you are different and people don't forgive uniqueness in any sense. Perhaps you should take a deep look at who you are and search for an environment that will be close to your personality. I don't know if it means move to another city or start going to certain places and join certain clubs or simply trying a different approach. You figure it out. For me it was changing the whole continent.

[crazy_grl]

All I can say to all of the ignorant women in this thread is HA HA HA HA HA.

 

Screw you, I could care less what you think.

 

In case I didn't make myself clear earlier:

 

Most women are petty, selfish, slutty, and generally ignorant in an uneducated way.

 

I know many, many men who feel this way.

 

Congrats ladies! You've officially proved my point.

 

Good. Congratulations to you. Now that you've got it all figured out, you can go away and celebrate your wonderous accomplishment with your just as arrogant, bitter brother. Maybe you and all your bitter buddies (of whom you seem to know many) can set up some kind of circle jerk, since none of you want anything to do with all those nasy b*&%ches.

 

Now leave all us sluts to our ignorant, petty yacking.

 

Come back and update us in a few months on who you're blaming your problems on and how you still can't get a woman.

[angelbabylk]

All I can say to all of the ignorant women in this thread is HA HA HA HA HA.

 

Screw you, I could care less what you think.

 

In case I didn't make myself clear earlier:

 

Most women are petty, selfish, slutty, and generally ignorant in an uneducated way.

 

I know many, many men who feel this way.

 

Congrats ladies! You've officially proved my point.

 

I know you said all of the ignorant women, and I think my posts have been the opposite of a lot of these. I posted two or three times, I didn't see you reply to either...? That's ok, don't expect you to be able to reply to all, just wondering how come I said nothing but nice things and you never said anything about that?

[RecordProducer]

You asked for it. The title of the thread is "Ladies....rip me apart."

 

It looks like they have.

A funny thing occurred to me: I think that's exactly what he wanted. I think he finds a quasi-sexual satisfaction in being abused by women. For some reason he hates women and wants women to hate him so he can justify his hatred toward them.

 

It's not hard to guess that we have another Woggle model here with deep roots of trauma caused by women, most likely his mother. It's also not hard to guess that women smell this mysogonism from a mile away in his behavior or even his facial expression.

 

When I wrote the previous post I hadn't had read his other posts whre he insults women in the worst ways.

[CardPlay3r]

Haha interesting theory RP. Yeah I figured you hadn't read his previous posts or you wouldn't have posted that lol

 

Or, maybe he's just a moron without the woggle thing

[Woggle]

Of course the women on here will rip you apart because they hate to here the truth about their gender. I have said numerous times that if a woman does not fit my description she should not take offense because I am not talking about her and I stand by that. If a woman is a good woman I have nothing but respect for her but they are like finding a needle in a haystack. My advice is to stop being hurt by this behavior from women. Just expect it and if you find a good woman you will be pleasently suprised. It is not painful to me when a woman does exactly what I expect her to do. Also stop trying to argue with women because it is pointless. I talk to men because they are the ones that need to wake up and grow some balls. If men on a large scale just grew some balls we could change this situation.

[CardPlay3r]

Well woggle, I guess because your mom abused you as a kid you figured almost all women are bad eh? Tsk tsk...

 

Funny, on the latest massive sex survey (and previous ones too) over 50% of men said they cheated or would cheat on their partner while the % of women was 30%.

 

And that's just an example...but I guess men that cheat have balls and are 'real men' women who do so are sluts right?

[Woggle]

Well woggle, I guess because your mom abused you as a kid you figured almost all women are bad eh? Tsk tsk...

 

Funny, on the latest massive sex survey (and previous ones too) over 50% of men said they cheated or would cheat on their partner while the % of women was 30%.

 

And that's just an example...but I guess men that cheat have balls and are 'real men' women who do so are sluts right?

 

Anybody that cheats of either gender is scum.

[HGP]

Imagine that an American women moves to Saudi Arabia - of course EVERYONE there will be the wrong guy for her, because of their mentality, right?

Well that's the solution - he should move to Saudi Arabia! He'd fit right in!

[RecordProducer]

Of course the women on here will rip you apart because they hate to here the truth about their gender. I have said numerous times that if a woman does not fit my description she should not take offense because I am not talking about her and I stand by that. .

It's not about which woman will take offense. I don't think any woman on LS feels offended or identifies herself with the "typical" woman you hate with such passion.

 

I just have a feeling that when you hear that somebody has died in a car accident, you think: "Who died? Jane Smith? Oh... OK... it's just a woman... who cares?"

[Kamille]

Of course the women on here will rip you apart because they hate to here the truth about their gender. I have said numerous times that if a woman does not fit my description she should not take offense because I am not talking about her and I stand by that. If a woman is a good woman I have nothing but respect for her but they are like finding a needle in a haystack. My advice is to stop being hurt by this behavior from women. Just expect it and if you find a good woman you will be pleasently suprised. It is not painful to me when a woman does exactly what I expect her to do. Also stop trying to argue with women because it is pointless. I talk to men because they are the ones that need to wake up and grow some balls. If men on a large scale just grew some balls we could change this situation.

 

Well, I do have much better things to do and worry about - things that actually do make the world a better place - then to spend much time taking offense from unknown strangers on a website, strangers who's ways of thinking about others (generalizations about entire segments of population) would probably disqualify them as friends of mine in real life anyways.

[Salicious Crumb]

Anybody that cheats of either gender is scum.

 

I'll 2nd that one!!

[Darkwall]

Women are my cause of anger. Perhaps I should just remove them from my life, which I have done recently.

 

I personally don't think there is anything wrong with my character.

 

I can't say the same for others though.

 

YOUR CHARACTER IS WHAT IS STANDING IN YOUR WAY OF FINDING LOVE. BUT, YOU KEEP DWELLING ON DEFENDING YOURSELF INSTEAD OF ADMITTING YOU HAVE PERSONAL ISSUES YOU NEED TO RESOLVE BEFORE YOU CAN OFFER YOURSELF TO ENTERTAINING THE IDEA OF LOVE. HOW CAN YOU FIND LOVE WHEN YOU EXUDE SO MUCH HATE?!

 

 

I respect your opinion, but mine just happens to differ. Look at this sentence he wrote...

 

"I think I may have mentioned this to you already...

Sometimes if you give someone you would never consider dating a chance, you fall in love. This goes back to having an open mind."

How does that not sound like settling?

Also, I don't think i could fall in love with someone that I wouldn't normally consider dating, just seems contradictory to me.

 

I WROTE THIS COMMENT. IT MEANT THAT LOVE IS RIGHT UNDER YOUR NOSE IF YOU JUST GIVE IT A CHANCE. YOU DATE AND GIVE ALL SORTS OF WOMEN A CHANCE AND YOU JUST MIGHT FALL IN LOVE WITH YOUR OPPOSITE. THIS IS NOT SETTLING. SETTLING WOULD BE IF YOU DATED SOMEONE YOU WOULDN'T NORMALLY A CHANCE TO AND LEARNED YOU DIDN'T IN FACT LIKE THEM BUT MADE IT WORK ANYWAY. I FELL IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE I WOULD NEVER NORMALLY HAVE EVEN NOTICED. WE'RE ACTUALLY TALKING ABOUT GETTING BACK TOGETHER AGAIN, BECAUSE WE MISS EACH OTHER AND I'M IN LOVE WITH HIM. I WOULDN'T TRADE HIM FOR ANYONE IN THE WORLD. I AM NOT SETTLING. I LOVE HIM.

 

 

Yeah, reality can be difficult for some to handle.

 

NO, IT'S YOUR UNFRIENDLY WAY OF COMMUNICATING TO THOSE WHO NEED POSITIVE AND COMMPASSIONATE ADVICE.

 

Some time ago I would have gotten angry and frustrated with such lack of common sense and basic logic, but now I'm just amused by idiots....

 

Anyone else thinking of a brick wall reading this thread? lol

 

YES! KINDRED, YOU'RE NOT LISTENING!!

 

 

Yeah, I used that title because I knew the moment I said anything derogatory about women in our society - that I would be flamed repeatedly.

 

If you women don't like it, then stop behaving like petty &^%$, because i am not the only man to have this view. I am just one of the few to have the balls to say it.

 

I DIDN'T "FLAME" YOU IMMEDIATELY. I GAVE YOU SOLID ADVICE. IT'S LATER THAT I FLAMED YOU FOR YOUR ATTACKING NATURE.

 

IF YOU HAVE "BALLS" THEN TAKE OUR ADVICE. AND, STOP BLAMING SOCIETY FOR YOUR PROBLEMS AND START TAKING RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOUR ACTIONS.

 

I'M GETTING TIRED OF THIS THREAD GOING ABSOLUTELY NOWHERE.

YOU ASKED WOMEN TO RIP YOU APART. WE DID. WE TOLD YOU THE TRUTH, TO ADJUST YOUR ATTITUDE. BUT INSTEAD, YOU ATTACKED US AND BLAMED US ALONG WITH THE REST OF SOCIETY FOR YOUR BEING UNABLE TO FIND A WOMAN.

WHY ARE IGNORING THE ADVICE? STOP ATTACKING US WOMEN FOR WHAT OTHER WOMEN HAVE DONE TO YOU.

[Darkwall]

You mentioned something about women being selfish?

 

If "I" was in fact "selfish",

 

1) I would have removed myself from this post a long time ago because I saw you were not wanting to help yourself by not taking our advice. But, I stayed to try to get through your stubborn thick skull and help you out.

 

2) I would have told you I thought you were an a-- hole because I thought you were behaving like one.

 

3) I would have removed myself because of all the hate I was hearing from you.

 

Let me make it clear that I am getting nothing out of this post. But, I unselfishly have continued to hear your abusive tone to help you.

 

Again, you don't see this because you are focused on blaming rather than accepting solutions and putting them into action.

 

I gotta say though, I'm spending a lot of time on your thread and not giving advice to other posters who are actually willing to put advice to use. So, if I soon remove myself than you can understand why. That doesn't make me selfish. It does make you however the one who will be losing out. Along with me others will follow. Is that what you really want? LS will soon not respond to any of your posts because they will know you will be wasting everyones time by not listening.

[CardPlay3r]

He hasn't posted in the last few days, wonder if he's banned? Either that or gave up because he's always right and we're always wrong and we didn't agree to his absolute knowledge of truth...

[Salicious Crumb]

YOUR CHARACTER IS WHAT IS STANDING IN YOUR WAY OF FINDING LOVE. BUT, YOU KEEP DWELLING ON DEFENDING YOURSELF INSTEAD OF ADMITTING YOU HAVE PERSONAL ISSUES

 

I won't disagree there, but I think, because I can actually relate here, that he probably use to be a great guy and just got stepped on one too many times.

 

I think he is lashing out.

[MrsHellFire]

You are extremely NEGATIVE and sulk in other peoples FORTUNES! Can you ever be happy for someone else? Maybe not since it seems you are very unhappy in general! Now you are trying to seek reason for why no women are interested in you?? I'm sure you can figure that out yourself by looking inwards! I'm guessing there is a problem in the looks and/or attitude department.

[MrsHellFire]

Dude, if you believe what the Bible says is the literal word of God then the Earth didn't exist a billion years ago.

 

No need to be nasty to people who are trying to help you.

 

 

LOL!! EXACTLY! I find this guy awfully contradicting and overall bitter and nasty! Emotional problems!

[MrsHellFire]

You are a woman-hater... maybe like you suggested.. removing them from your life would be best. Buy some pets like the old women do! Because you are nowhere near ready for a relationship! Why should a woman be subjected to your fury??

[MrsHellFire]

I never said I was looking for someone with no issues......

 

I don't think what I am asking fo is too much to ask. Every woman I have dated in the past 3 years was "seperated" or broke up with her boy to be with me. I am so tired of that.

 

 

Apparently, you think women shouldn't be allowed to date. Of course it's likely a woman dating you has just came off of another relationship. I really don't understand your thinking. How do you expect to find a virginal wife who is not in the dating scene, yet somehow finds you.