Theres another woman whose come between us again

[Romeo Must Die]

MY mother in law, of course !!!

 

Mz Friend of the affair is starting wars between us AGAIN!!!

 

Do something quick! Just protect me from her evilness !!!

 

Shes an old lady, half out of her mind. I try to keep the peace for the families sake. Pardon me while I vent *here* what I REALLY wanted to say to her.

 

AAARRRGGHHHH!!! I HATE YOU !!! YOU EVIL BITCH !!! YOU ARE THE SPAWN OF HELL !!! AHHHHHH !!! I HOPE YOU DIE !!!

 

!!!

[jl5099]

I have to agree with your vent only it's with my FIL. He's 82 and just won't give up!!! My sentiments exactly!!

[Guest]

JUST PULL OUT THE OXYGEN NOSE PLUGS AND TELL HER THAT UNTIL SHE BEHAVES - NO AIR!

 

OK, THE ROUNDUP - #2 CHECK

2) negativity: Avoid it. Your profile makes you sound a little bitter and jaded. This is not the time to advertise how little you make or how disappointing most women have been so far. Talk about whatever you can mention enthusiastically and positively.

OK. THE ROUNDUP - #3 CHECK - I CAN TAKE CARE OF MY OWN STUFF - HEY, I CAN IRON, SEW, COOK, LAUNDRY, EVERYTHING - I'M A CTACH

3) numbers: This is more of a personal preference but if one does the numbers, she realizes that you have never been single your whole adult life, until now! Given your profile and your statement above, your only dating experience was as a kid (under 21 and possibly still in parents' care). That's scary and it often spells an upcoming mid-life crisis for men who finally realize that while other guys were enjoying (I mean really enjoying) their young 20's, you were already settled in with a wife and children! Or she might figure the odds of you being someone who "needs" a woman (read "mother", "housekeeper", "caretaker" etc. since 18 was a bit young to believe you'd found the "love of your life") vs. the odds of you having gained some maturity from the experience. She may decide that it's not worth the risk. She doesn't really need that much information yet. Take some numbers out (be honest about your age of course). You can discuss the rest later.

 

OK - THE ROUNDUP #4 - I LOVE KIDS - I SAW 6 BABIES TODAY - SMILES

4) children: You want more You're ruling out women your age who don't really want any more (after all, you both already have your own). You're ruling out women who have never been married, no children and want children, but don't care for their brood to be your "second" (they want to truly experience new parenthood together with their partner-not as much fun if he's already been through it). Before I had my children, I didn't want a man who already had them either. Stick to those preferences if they are "must haves" but just accept the fact that it might significantly lower the group of women out there who are looking for a man like you.

 

OK - THE ROUNDUP - #5 - AS SOON AS SHE SEES ME SHE'LL NOTICE NO SMOKIES FROM ME

5) Ditto on the smoking thing: That's just a dealbreaker for a lot of people, especially if they know you have young children and still smoke. That just isn't cool.

 

#6 - THE BEST IS BEING VULMERABLE AND HAVING THAT BE A STRENGTH NOT A WEAKNESS. U SHOW COURAGE IN MANY WAYS - SHE TAUGHT ME THAT TOO. OK, ENUFF OF THE LESSONS - WHAT DID U LEARN FROM ME BABE?

nothing wrong with a man showing vunerability does not make him less than a man but more than a man a real man.and he is showing he can be loving and caring.and have deep intimacy with a women.and I like a man that can show vunerability.It is very endearing.and shows he can have a great emotional bond with a women.

 

SEE, WE HAVE THE BEST OF EVERYTHING - BOTH WORLDS = ONE

[RecordProducer]

AAARRRGGHHHH!!! I HATE YOU !!! YOU EVIL BITCH !!! YOU ARE THE SPAWN OF HELL !!! AHHHHHH !!! I HOPE YOU DIE !!!

 

!!!

She must die and Romeo must die. When are you going to kill them already?

 

Try to stay away from her and make it a point with your Romeo. Far from your sight, far from your heart!

 

I have to agree with your vent only it's with my FIL. He's 82 and just won't give up!!! My sentiments exactly!!

I have these sentiments for my brother-in-law, father-in-law and their wives. In my mind, they are dead. I struggled and fought against them until a few days ago. It's over now. I fell the same about my husband who let them ruin our marriage.

[My Fair Katie]

My mother in law also tries to come between me and the hubs, I'm not Catholic, so apparently I'm a baaaaaaaad daughter in law.

 

My Fair Husband is good (usually anyway) about presenting a united marital front, and she has yet to come between us. Every time she tries she's met with an angry husband who promptly tells her where her place is.

 

Good luck with your monster in law hun.

[Art_Critic]

I have these sentiments for my brother-in-law, father-in-law and their wives. In my mind, they are dead. I struggled and fought against them until a few days ago. It's over now. I fell the same about my husband who let them ruin our marriage.

 

Sorry RP ..

[RecordProducer]

I'm not Catholic, so apparently I'm a baaaaaaaad daughter in law.

There's always something to serve as an excuse for their rotten souls to spread the stink! My MIL, on the other hand, is the sweetest woman ever.

 

Sorry RP ..

Thanks.

[MoonGirl]

RMD,

 

Some MILs can be evil when they want to be. If it makes you feel any better (probably not!), you're not alone!

 

My MIL regularily makes dinner for the whole family and sets a place at the table for everyone except me! She calls me "princess" because I won't listen to all of her BS advice (i.e. commands) and likes to remind me constantly of horrible I am. My FIL calls me an idiot. It's lovely!

 

Hang in there! At least your MIL is old!

[jl5099]

Don't rely on the fact that they're old! Sorry to bare bad news but I have been dealing with my FIL for almost 12 years now who has more health problems than you could imagine! He's 82 and just had heart valve replacement surgery. He literally won't give up! And just to make me feel worse, his mom was 101 when she died!! I could have to deal with him for another 20 years??!?!?!?! Just remember only the good die young!!