IslandGirl73 Posted January 19, 2007 Share Posted January 19, 2007 PLEASE SEE MY PREVIOUS POST EXPL. MY STORY: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t109636/ OK, HERE IT GOES, AFTER OUR EVENING OUT TOGETHER...HE COMPLETELY CHANGED ON ME...I GOT NO CALLS, NO EMAILS, NOTHING...AND AT WORK THE FOLLOWING WEEK, HE DID THE ULTIMATE AND STOOD ME UP FOR LUNCH AND WHEN I GOT UPSET, THATS WHEN HE SENT ME AN EMAIL CALLING EVERYTHING OFF. I REACHED OUT TO HIM IN EVERY WAY POSSIBLE TO TRY AND CHANGE HIS MIND BUT HE WOULDN'T. THE LAST I DID WAS I SENT A FINAL EMAIL AGAIN APOLOGIZING AND ASKING HIM IF HE COULD PLS FORGIVE AND GIVE US ANOTHER TRY...I ALSO TOLD HIM I WOULD GIVE HIM HIS SPACE AND TIME HE NEEDED TILL HE'S READY... THAT WAS 4 DAYS AGO-I HAVEN'T CALLED OR EMAILED HIM AND AT WORK, I TAKE DFFRT BREAK AND LUNCH TIMES TO TOTALLY AVOID RUNNING INTO HIM. SO I HARDLY SEE HIM NOW...BUT SOMETIMES, I'LL CATCH HIM STARING AT ME FROM AFAR OR WHEN WE RUN INTO EACH OTHER ON A RARE OCCASION, HE WILL TAP MY SHOULDER TO SAY A QUICK HI AND KEEP GOING... I DIDN'T WANT THINGS TO END THIS WAY SO ABRUPT, BUT I THINK MY ACTIONS EARLIER THIS WEEK COUPLED W/THE FACT THAT I'M MARRIED SCARED HIM AWAY... EVEN THOUGH I WAS COMPLETELY HONEST ABOUT IT FROM THE BEGINNING AND EXPLND THAT I'M STUCK IN A LOVELESS MARRIAGE... AND NOW EVEN THOUGH I DON'T TRY TO CONTACT HIM, HE WON'T CALL OR EMAIL OR NOTHING...WILL GIVING HIM N/C AND SPACE WORK? IF I DID SCARE HIM AWAY, WILL HE EVER FEEL COMFORTABLE TO RECONSIDER FORGIVING MY ACTIONS AND TRY AGAIN? COMING FROM A DUMPER'S POINT OF VIEW, WHEN YOU ARE GIVEN YOUR TIME AND SPACE, IS IT POSSIBLE TO RECONSIDER THE SITUATION AFTER U'VE THOUGHT THINGS THRU? OR IS THIS REALLY FINAL FOR US? I MISS HIM TERRIBLY AND WANT TO BREAK DOWN AND CALL HIM SO BAD... Link to post Share on other sites
resi71 Posted January 24, 2007 Share Posted January 24, 2007 i know what you feel.the NC contact works but not every time,never know.you must hope the best,my girl dump me first time in august,NC,got back 3 weeks later,now it is have been 2 month and i do not know what happend,she is not telling me,all i do just pray every day to give me one more chance,if person loves still you in heart they will make contact to find out how are you doing,if you push on it makes worse,i am going thrue that hard way.but still want her back over everything in world Link to post Share on other sites
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