SMF1423 Posted January 21, 2007 Share Posted January 21, 2007 So there's this girl that I work with and lately we've really been hitting it off. We share many common interests and have been talking a lot through sites like Myspace, Facebook, and a very little bit on AIM (neither of us sign on very much). More recently we've been paling around, taking our lunch breaks together, and talking to each other at work about things such as interests, school, etc. We even met with each other for a movie together earlier this week but it wasn't really a date, just two friends. We poke fun and tease each other a little, but for some reason I'm still not sure if she likes me in the same way I feel for her. Please, give me your opinions. I'm 19 and haven't had a girlfriend ever mostly because I'm so picky I haven't been attracted to anyone enough to make a move. This is the first girl I've never found a fault in and really want to turn it into something. Thanks! Link to post Share on other sites
fudge_cake_89 Posted January 27, 2007 Share Posted January 27, 2007 Well definately sounds like you've fallen for her! Do you catch her looking at you in a dreamy way sometimes? Sounds a bit like me and my mate, he's fallen for me quite hard, and says to our other friends that he's besotted(how ever its spelt?!) with me. But i dont like him in a relationship way, and he said he knows that, which makes me feel bad cos he really does like me, a lot. I would say, from a girls point of view, when u feel ready to, tell her how you feel. it will make her happy that someone really likes her, and if she likes you then she'll probably tell you back. if she doesnt like you in the same way, she'll also probably say so, or she'll be speechless like i was when my mate told me he liked me. But we still get on like we did before, we've both accepted how we feel about each other and in a way its made us closer. i hope it works out between you two! sounds like it could! Link to post Share on other sites
Cous Cous With Goose Posted January 27, 2007 Share Posted January 27, 2007 Why you asking us? Like we know what happened in your life. Get the mood going and then ask her. If she says yes, hey lucky you. If she says no move on. You need and hopefully will later understand a girl doesn't have to be genetic perfection, it's her personality that counts. And she doesn't have to be perfect in every way there, there's a reason why you never had a girlfriend. Link to post Share on other sites
Author SMF1423 Posted January 29, 2007 Author Share Posted January 29, 2007 Thanks for the responses. A little bit of an update: This past week we went to a party together for a mutual friend and things went pretty well. We've hung-out a little outside of work since then too and have plans for this Friday afternoon. I even suggested that I should maybe meet her parents sometime soon (I'm friends with her last "near" boyfriend and I know he blew it with her father, causing a lot of tension between everyone halting anything that would've of happened). So while I still have minor doubts I'm just going to go ahead and ask her if she wants to actually turn this into a relationship. If it yes, awesome. If it's no, well...at least I know. I'm pretty sure we could still be good friends. Oh and Goose, I appreciate your opinion but i haven't fallen for her for her looks alone. What I really like the most about her is her personality and the fact that we do have so much in common. Link to post Share on other sites
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