Best Friends And Men

[CinderellaElla]

Ok, first of all, I'm in high school and I did something that I know I probably shouldnt of did.

Anyways heres the story. My friend Jenna, really likes this guy Damien ans she's liked him for 3 years. Though, she has a boyfriend. Anyways, no matter how many times i told her to not think about this other guy because she never talks to him and all, that she should be happy that she has a boyfriend that cares for her as much as her boyfriend does.

So she added the guy damien to msn, after calling him and asking him if he liked her and he said no. His friends would always stare and as would he, and thats why she thought that he liked her. And then I also had this guy that is quite popular, that always eyed me. But I'm the type of person that doubts on men liking me, so I just ignored it, but more often my friend would tell me he was watching.

And then she got damiens email and added him to msn and he flipped out at her, cuz he said shes creeping him out. So, then she was on an emial that I had and she talked to him and he freaked again and blocked her because she added him to that account.

But then I couldnt take her talking about him anymore so I got his email and pretended to be someone else, a guy..and I talked to him on there. I told him that I was having issues with a girl that was always emailin me and I didnt know why. So then he said that he has the exact same problem and that he said stalk would be an appropriate word for her to be doing. He said she's the uglyiest girl he ever met and that she doesnt kno him and that they joked around (his friends and him) about it for a year but then it got out of hand and now he thinks she's crazy because she still wont leave him alone. I dont know what to tell her anymore. But he says he hates her alot. But she saw him look at her so she thinks he likes her. But I have these feelings sometimes about that I know things..like deja vu. I can see thngs before they happen. (call me crazy) Anywas I had a feeling he didnt like her so I told her that maybe the guy I kinda liked doesnt like me and I used that so I could tell her maybe the guy she keeps eyeing doesnt like her.

The thing is damien said to "me" that he is going to have to get mean and just tell her where to go, I dont want to hurt my friend. But I dont know what to do. And for what damien said, it makes me really thnk because even though jenna thinks that the guy in another group likes me, myabe it's the same thing that damien thinks about her. But the difference is, is that me and his name is Brad actually talk every once in a while, and we do some sports the same. Also, all his friends stare at me, and the thing is he trys to make me jealous alot, and he's nice one mintue and then he stares at me in the eyes, but if i go talk to him, he makes me feel like he's ashamed to talk to me. He always looks down. So that's why it made me think that maybe it's the same senerio as jennas.

Anyways, sorry for rambling on, but I beg for some kind of advice. I did tell jenna that I found out some not so good things about damien, and she said that she hates him now, but she always says that and in a bit she'll say why and like him all over again. So, I'm really not sure what to do, about my friend, and her passion for damien...and I usually am the advice giver to all my friends, so it's weird for me to ask. But I also am curious to what you think about this guy I like. I'm not sure what to do, cuz I like him but I'm worried maybe it might be a similar case as jennas. So thanks for listening and thanks for any advice given.

CinderellaElla