I know SIL made BIL attack me and I don't know what was her goal

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My brother-in-law.

 

My in-laws have been abusing me since I married my husband a year ago and that has created many problems, since hubby was trying to balance things between me and them, constantly trying to persuade me that they are not so bad, while fighting with them about me. But they have ignored me, insulted me, gossiped about me, made it clear that I am not welcome in the family - while all I ever did was being extremely sweet to them, smiling and kissing their asses, because my husband wanted me to be nice to them, no matter how THEY treat me. "They" is hubby's brother, father, their wives, and BIL's two teenage daughters.

 

Anyway, I heard hubby yelling at his brother on the phone, saying repeatedly that he is a big f-ing ass. A minute after the conversation, his brother arrives (he lives next door) and says he wants to talk to me, but since hubby is against it, then he won't. I ask what it's about, he said about his daughter, who is 16. I go to the bedroom and ask hubby what's going on and it turns out that BIL wants to bring up some joke that I made on the 15th August last year.

 

Namely, I had an abortion and I told the girl in a joke "I have another pregnancy kit test if you need it :laugh:" Then I laughed and it was obvious that it was a joke. Anyway, the BIL and SIL (the girl is not SIL's daughter) already criticized me about this joke a few months ago. Hubby was pissed and couldn't understand why they brought it up again; he called his daughter an ass hole, too.

 

So I went back to BIL and asked: "What about that joke?" He asked why I said that and how. I said I didn't remember the context, but it was a joke. He said "I think it was inappropriate!"

 

Then I said: "You are just too sensitive about the subject, because your daughter has a drinking problem, drugs problem, smoking problem, lying problem, and a problem of disrespect toward teachers, so you're trying to blame ME for your parental skills or lack thereof!"

 

He said he didn't want to discuss his parental skills (check that!), but wanted to discuss the joke I made 4 months ago. Then I said:

 

"I am going to finish this conversation right now. I don't want to have anything to do with you or your daughter. I am done with you!"

He remained with this expression on his face --->

 

I left the room. Hubby told him something, but I didn't hear what. Then BIL left. Hubby didn't tell me anything about what I said.

 

But it felt sooooooooo good for me. The reason for this was probably because yesterday my husband told his brother that he's definitely NOT going to his b/day party (they are twins), because BIL and SIL refused to invite the mother of the brothers (my mother-in-law), because SIL hates MIL. I knew that SIL would think of some sh*t now that she lost the "battle" about the b/day party. But I thought they would be smarter than this.

 

They couldn't find anything bad about me so they dug up something from the past. I don't understand why he came to talk to me after hubby told him he was an ass about this. I've never heard hubby insulting his brother like that before. The situation is even more exciting for me, because hubby and I are not in good terms right now (we've had some arguments - mostly because of them, as usual).

 

I know SIL made BIL attack me and I don't know what was her goal other than to abuse me, but I showed them that I am not afraid of them, that I don't give a damn about their opinion, that I have my husband on my side, and they better get off my case once for good.

 

I've been waiting for an opportunity like this for a long time. They are usually sneaky and more careful in their attempts to squeeze me out of hubby's life and make me feel miserable.

 

I was praying for this chance - thank you, God!