Art_Critic Posted January 23, 2007 Share Posted January 23, 2007 I believe they are many people here not interested in the drama that keeps getting slinged around. This forum has been used as a play toy, I have a problem with those who have used this as entertainment. It is all about perception.. Advice to some might not be advice to you.. Advice to you might not be advice to someone else.. You need to take what you like and leave the rest.. Telling people how to provide advice isn't very helpful... in fact you are somewhat doing what you are saying others are doing on this forum . Link to post Share on other sites
pricillia Posted January 23, 2007 Share Posted January 23, 2007 It is all about perception.. Advice to some might not be advice to you.. Advice to you might not be advice to someone else.. You need to take what you like and leave the rest.. Telling people how to provide advice isn't very helpful... in fact you are somewhat doing what you are saying others are doing on this forum . That is what I just said above Link to post Share on other sites
Author yousaveme Posted January 23, 2007 Author Share Posted January 23, 2007 At this point I am going to bow out.... I hope everyone takes what they need and leave the rest behind. I hope advice is given heartfelt and with sincersity. ( i know I misspelled that). Thats the advice people need. I wish that type of advice. Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted January 23, 2007 Share Posted January 23, 2007 At this point I am going to bow out.... I hope everyone takes what they need and leave the rest behind. I hope advice is given heartfelt and with sincersity. ( i know I misspelled that). Thats the advice people need. I wish that type of advice. Are you okay YSM ? Link to post Share on other sites
pricillia Posted January 23, 2007 Share Posted January 23, 2007 Are you okay YSM ? No because like me the situation is starting to get to her Link to post Share on other sites
Author yousaveme Posted January 23, 2007 Author Share Posted January 23, 2007 No its not...NOTHING ABOUT THIS THREAD IS ABOUT ME AND HIS SITUTATION... But I am interested now. By your statement No because like me the situation is starting to get to her Link to post Share on other sites
pricillia Posted January 23, 2007 Share Posted January 23, 2007 If it were a normal relationship, sensitivity would really not be part of the equasion, self esteem would be higher and may take things better and let them roll Link to post Share on other sites
Kathleen Posted January 23, 2007 Share Posted January 23, 2007 Yonville anyone??? Sorry, had to add that to lighten things up in here. Link to post Share on other sites
pricillia Posted January 23, 2007 Share Posted January 23, 2007 Yonville anyone??? Sorry, had to add that to lighten things up in here. Yonville?>>>>>>>>>>>>>> Link to post Share on other sites
Kathleen Posted January 23, 2007 Share Posted January 23, 2007 I think it's Yonville?? The Shed????? Link to post Share on other sites
pricillia Posted January 23, 2007 Share Posted January 23, 2007 Oh... ????? Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted January 23, 2007 Share Posted January 23, 2007 Oh... ????? google it.. it is another forum.. I just googled it...The shed is a forum on yonville I don't know what it means though Link to post Share on other sites
NearlyThere Posted January 23, 2007 Share Posted January 23, 2007 Oh... ????? You dont want to go there. Believe me a bad day on here when it becomes the proverbial bloodbath is better than Yonville on a normal day. This is a typical first post on a new thread. Quick! Call 9-1-1! Call the FBI! The CIA! Her married scum is missing! He stayed at her place for some servicing, then left for parts unknown (to visit family). Hoor figured he'd back to work on Monday but guess what???? HE'S NOT BACK!!! HEAVEN HELP US, HE'S MISSING! She hasn't heard from Mr. Jizz in 4 days now, girls! 4 WHOLE DAYS! Did wifey find the text messages she's sent? Has he been in a horrible accident? Should she call out the National Guard???? Where is he???? F******g fool. He's OBVIOUSLY somewhere and NOT thinking of you, you stupid, useless cooze. It's called, he's living his REAL life and YOU'RE not a part of it. Take a freakin' Xanax and go flush your stupid head down the toilet. [COLOR=navy][FONT=georgia]Expert Hoor Tweaker - Serving Hoors Since 2003[/FONT][/COLOR] Link to post Share on other sites
Kathleen Posted January 23, 2007 Share Posted January 23, 2007 You dont want to go there. Believe me a bad day on here when it becomes the proverbial bloodbath is better than Yonville on a normal day. This is a typical first post on a new thread. Quick! Call 9-1-1! Call the FBI! The CIA! Her married scum is missing! He stayed at her place for some servicing, then left for parts unknown (to visit family). Hoor figured he'd back to work on Monday but guess what???? HE'S NOT BACK!!! HEAVEN HELP US, HE'S MISSING! She hasn't heard from Mr. Jizz in 4 days now, girls! 4 WHOLE DAYS! Did wifey find the text messages she's sent? Has he been in a horrible accident? Should she call out the National Guard???? Where is he???? F******g fool. He's OBVIOUSLY somewhere and NOT thinking of you, you stupid, useless cooze. It's called, he's living his REAL life and YOU'RE not a part of it. Take a freakin' Xanax and go flush your stupid head down the toilet. [COLOR=navy][FONT=georgia]Expert Hoor Tweaker - Serving Hoors Since 2003[/FONT][/COLOR] Oh my goodness, no one here would use such language. That's horrible. I'll stay here. Thanks for the heads up NT. Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted January 23, 2007 Share Posted January 23, 2007 Oh my goodness, no one here would use such language. That's horrible. I'll stay here. Thanks for the heads up NT. I'm not sure.. since I'm reading between the lines here.. but I think the Author of the horrible post is also a poster on LS..They may have directed their hatred toward a LS poster thru another forum. I am only purely speculating though.. not trying to piss anyone off Link to post Share on other sites
NearlyThere Posted January 23, 2007 Share Posted January 23, 2007 Oh my goodness, no one here would use such language. That's horrible. I'll stay here. Thanks for the heads up NT. thats the tame starter for that thread, its actually gets worse. Link to post Share on other sites
NearlyThere Posted January 23, 2007 Share Posted January 23, 2007 I'm not sure.. since I'm reading between the lines here.. but I think the Author of the horrible post is also a poster on LS..They may have directed their hatred toward a LS poster thru another forum. I am only purely speculating though.. not trying to piss anyone off Yes there is someone who posts on there as well, there was a thread that got removed last week. They said there was as mole!!! on here as well. But the person who the poster reckoned it was denied it. It all got very compliated and confusing and WWIU reported it. Link to post Share on other sites
Kathleen Posted January 23, 2007 Share Posted January 23, 2007 I tried to Google yonville but nothing was found. I dunno!! Oh well. I don't have a shed so I don't know what that's about either. Link to post Share on other sites
NearlyThere Posted January 23, 2007 Share Posted January 23, 2007 I tried to Google yonville but nothing was found. I dunno!! Oh well. I don't have a shed so I don't know what that's about either. yonville is a site, the shed is the forum part where the post!! Can you post links on here??? for something like that??? I'm not too sure. Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted January 23, 2007 Share Posted January 23, 2007 Yes there is someone who posts on there as well, there was a thread that got removed last week. They said there was as mole!!! on here as well. But the person who the poster reckoned it was denied it. It all got very compliated and confusing and WWIU reported it. Ahh... Well then just ignore me.. I'm not trying to start anything.. I was trying to make sense of the thread Link to post Share on other sites
NearlyThere Posted January 23, 2007 Share Posted January 23, 2007 Ahh... Well then just ignore me.. I'm not trying to start anything.. I was trying to make sense of the thread No, you were obviously right, you sussed it. lol Link to post Share on other sites
Author yousaveme Posted January 23, 2007 Author Share Posted January 23, 2007 If you want to know you can PM me... Art has it right...( i think ) Link to post Share on other sites
norajane Posted January 23, 2007 Share Posted January 23, 2007 Every forum is what the people there make it. YSM, and anyone else who is unhappy with how others are replying to posts or don't like the threads they've started, ignore them. Don't engage in those discussions, don't prolong them, don't get drawn into the arguments. If someone says something nasty to you in one of your threads, just ignore it as unhelpful and unproductive. Instead, turn to the threads started by people who are asking for help, for guidance, for wisdom from OW/OM's in similar situations. Give them the benefit of your experience and compassion. Discuss the points that others raise that do seem to apply to you and your situation. If you (the general you) don't like engaging in defensive and offensive posts, you don't have to. You really don't. You can let it go, no matter what someone says or how rudely they say it. If you want this forum to be about support and open discussion, then make it so. You are not powerless or at the mercy of anyone. Link to post Share on other sites
herenow Posted January 23, 2007 Share Posted January 23, 2007 So, I've been too busy to post here for a few days and I come back to another thread about how bad this forum has become. Please explain to me how threads like this help anyone. At least on a thread where BW's and OW debate there is substance. What good does it do to continually tell people that they should not shared their opinions honestly. Am I supposed to change how I feel just so that I don't hurt your feelings? Do you want me to lie and tell you what you want to hear? I have learned many things on this forum about the OW that has helped me understand my situation, but no matter how many people disagree with me or say that I don't belong, I come here on my own free will and I take what I need and leave the rest. As far as Yonville goes, the OW here are the ones promoting it. I would never have found it if it wasn't for you. I'm not a member and have never posted there, but I did read there after it was mentioned here. Again, if you don't like what they have to say, then why do you talk about them so much? Just like anything else, you have control over your actions. No one forces you to read my posts or anyone else's. As a matter of fact, most of you will ignore this post and not even get this far. Link to post Share on other sites
Author yousaveme Posted January 23, 2007 Author Share Posted January 23, 2007 HMMMMMM.. Lets see how does it help when I am asked how is your health going...And its used to talk about how I CANT HAVE KIDS. THAT I SHOULD KICK THE BUCKET ALREADY. I want those who want to be sincere about their advices to continue giving it. IT HELPS EVEN WHEN PEOPLE DONT AGREE. ITS ADVICE THAT IS MEANT TO HELP. To those who are using this as a toy. GO GET A REAL LIFE. Link to post Share on other sites
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