Kelso Posted January 23, 2007 Share Posted January 23, 2007 Okay, everybody please stand up and applaude. For the first time since my breakup three months ago, I've found some sparks with another woman. I've been on quite the few dates for the past weeks but haven't been able to feel any sparks with any of those women, until I met this girl on Friday a week and a half ago. I'm not big of a player, more kind of the nice guy. But I decided to try a different type of approach this time. Instead of the nice-guy introduction I've used in the past I decided to get her phone number from her friend and started texting her from out of the blue. We didn't know at all ... but I gave her more and more information until she had enough to find my MySpace. Well she seemed interested after some texts so we decided to meet. Not a formal date, just to see each other. Well, she recognized me right away and we hada nice evening. She has added me to her MSN and we talk a bit during the day, and also during the evenings. I know one fact, that MSN is probably the highway to friend zone. I know she is probably interested, but in the past I've been running the emergency lane to the friend zone. I seem to end up there 85% of the time. That's probably because of my nice guy attitude. So what I need from you guys are some serious advice on how I can stay away from the friend zone without things happening too gast with this girl. This is the first girl since my breakup that I can feel any sparks with. The excitement when I see her log onto MSN and the butterflies flying while seeing which one are first to initiate a contact And of course the best, I get to think about her during the day...which keeps my away from thoughts about my ex... I'm feeling soooo good right now Any advices on the friend zone thing?? Link to post Share on other sites
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