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Ruining a good friends situation like this?


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To simply put it, for any of you who've seen Seinfeld the sitcom...my circle of friends is basically that layout, with the exception of the character personas.

 

I have a gut feeling that the female friend (single) is attracted to me and has been since we met...She usually treats me differently than the other guy friends, like being flirtatiously playful and always trying to get bigger/longer hugs when we part. The last time we all hung out, she seemed more flirtatious and fun than usual (normally she's in a bad mood), but it was the first time i've seen her in a non-loathing/depressing state.

 

I'm a little attracted to her, but I am moreso intersted in just testing the waters. However if things dont work out for us, i dont think things will be the same, or if it does work out it also wont be the same. My friend who is more like seinfeld is the magnet/middle-man in the circle of friends.

 

This circle of friend thing seems worse to jeapordize compared to a usual 1guy and 1 girl friendship.

 

What do you guys think?

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brokenhart2007

Go for it, nothing wrong with "testing the waters", but right up front you 2 might want to be clear on the fact that, if it doesn't work out, it won't effect the friendship or the circle. If there is any awkwardness b/tween you 2, the circle will feel awkward as well.

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