yes grasshopper yes i dooooooooo [but we will work on what u want to ok?]

[Guest]

Hi love slackers [opppppppppsy – lol], evening Anne babe

 

I’m in a great mood tonight because I finally made a decision – and its about a challenge that made to me by my gf, opppsy, can’t really say that we are bf/gf yet [part of being honest now] but we are in the courtship stage so hopefully soon. A while back my special friend told me that she needed some time to shift thru a few things and because she thought that I might make a big episode out of it, she challenged me to be patient for a month, stay exclusive with her, but date [without emotional and physical elements], and we would stay in touch once a day to catch up on each others progress –

 

so, I just realized tonite that the amount of contact between us right now is enuff for me to agree to her challenge. I was originally gonna say forget that but I’ve learned now to take some time when it comes to big decisions and that when you flip and flop back and forth it only sends mixed signals and is confusing as hell, that’s what I did – and I am glad I did and came up with a plan – see, by waiting a week, and then analyizing what we had done and accomplished over the last few weeks, I was able to SEE EXACTLY how much we actually have done together.

 

Tons of stuff. And when I looked at that volume of positive great work over such a short period of time, I said, hey, even if the worse that comes out of this is a friendship – it will be a lifelong one that is totally rawk solid. See, Anne really is an amazing woman, I don’t think people really notice all the behind the scene work she does because when she is ready and presents herself in public she looks so together and confident that its easy to forget that months of preparation went into her doing that and she never, ever asks for recognition of that, only that you listen to what she is telling you and then show her you have listened thru your behaviour.

 

Wicked eh! So, I’ve been spending almost every night with her, we have been studying as many things [medicine, general health], going to classes [therapy, addiction programs], supporting each other [rent loan, research info] and sharing quality time together, and because of that I am now more motivated and she’s dumped a few projects that were taking her time – that’s great stuff – how do u pass up that.

 

And what made me change my mind was this song I heard about 2 hours ago, sung by a woman, who is telling her bf not to give up so easy because everyone she knows is boring and scared of her and she likes fighting with him – it’s a great song [can’t remember the name tho]. A refreshing change from all those whoa is me songs on the radio. So, I accepted her challenge and surprise the crap out of her by not making any ridiculous amendments or grumpy faces and grumpy words – that can ruin a whole day for some people you know. So I accepted her challenge and will wait for her to let me know she is ready to mark the papers. KEWL EH! Anne Rawks man

 

Joe