2sunny Posted May 17, 2007 Share Posted May 17, 2007 Like I said : You don't trust him. You never will. This is not about a cell phone. This is about a cheater. And you own one. And are apparently trying to find fixes and devices when you will still come out ( no matter how you look at it ) with a cheater. I find his actions disgusting. I don't find your acceptance to deal and stay with him very attractive either. We all have choices. He chooses to cheat . You choose to stay with him. Ask me about a cell phone and I will tell you what I know. Tell me you are using it to track a cheating husband and I will tell you what I know. I know you didn't want hear it. Something tells me you are familiar in some way with men cheating on you in your past ? Can't help you there because I don't pick cheaters. there's no need to seem so angry at ood... its' just not productive. Link to post Share on other sites
Author outofdarkness Posted May 17, 2007 Author Share Posted May 17, 2007 I won't even dignify your post mary3 with a detailed response. I will say that had you read some of my posts, you would know that the only man I have ever been with is my H..Met when we were in high school, dated in college married after...I've never been with anyone else in ANY way..So, no, I have not experience w/ cheaters, unless you count my Dad... Link to post Share on other sites
Mary3 Posted May 17, 2007 Share Posted May 17, 2007 The question was absolutely about a cell phone. Her thread, her question. Alot of us got way sidetraced discussing the things which we come here to discuss. Many people here care about OOD and have followed her story, so yes, they have added comments about her situation which is a much more common one that people realize. You Mary3, could be of great help here on the infidelity board, possibly erradicate its need to even exist. Let us know, please, exactly how you KNOW who a cheater is. No one wants to marry and start a life with a cheater, tell us all, oh wise one, exactly how not to pick a cheater???? Gosh, I would just say you have to have a knack for finding someone who is so totally into you and loves spending time with you , you know his whereabouts and theres no * mysterious * time missing from your lives. I would venture to say alot of people believe their mate/partner/lover will likely cheat but I never grew up believing that. My mom and dad were married 40 years and he was very devoted to her. I found men through my life that were incredibly dedicated and never once did they do anything except ( act obsessed ) which I later found was not that healthy. But I think there are women who have been cheated on , accept that its a fact in some way and keep it in their lives. Its a certain mentality. When I was 10 years old a very pretty neighbor was crying ( she was about 25 ) and I asked her what was wrong ? She said " My husband cheated on me " I said " Oh I'm sorry to hear that " And she said " Thats alright ALL men cheat " I was like blown away. I was only 10. I had to go out on my own in the world years later and found that not all men are cheaters and some women are lucky enough to find them. Link to post Share on other sites
GreenEyedLady Posted May 18, 2007 Share Posted May 18, 2007 I can't help you there because I don't pick cheaters. I'm not sure who you were trying to help with this grandiose gesture at speaking simply for the sake of speaking... If you're not trying to help, perhaps it's best not to post at all... As for your opinion, I don't think anyone here cares what you think... Link to post Share on other sites
Author outofdarkness Posted May 18, 2007 Author Share Posted May 18, 2007 I'm not sure who you were trying to help with this grandiose gesture at speaking simply for the sake of speaking... If you're not trying to help, perhaps it's best not to post at all... As for your opinion, I don't think anyone here cares what you think... I second that...thanks gel Link to post Share on other sites
Author outofdarkness Posted May 18, 2007 Author Share Posted May 18, 2007 Gosh, I would just say you have to have a knack for finding someone who is so totally into you and loves spending time with you , you know his whereabouts and theres no * mysterious * time missing from your lives. I would venture to say alot of people believe their mate/partner/lover will likely cheat but I never grew up believing that. My mom and dad were married 40 years and he was very devoted to her. I found men through my life that were incredibly dedicated and never once did they do anything except ( act obsessed ) which I later found was not that healthy. But I think there are women who have been cheated on , accept that its a fact in some way and keep it in their lives. Its a certain mentality. When I was 10 years old a very pretty neighbor was crying ( she was about 25 ) and I asked her what was wrong ? She said " My husband cheated on me " I said " Oh I'm sorry to hear that " And she said " Thats alright ALL men cheat " I was like blown away. I was only 10. I had to go out on my own in the world years later and found that not all men are cheaters and some women are lucky enough to find them. IMO, you accomplish nothing on this board when you intentionally try to hurt another poster just for the h--- of it. IWWH was just trying to voice her op and take up for me and the other BS...There's no crime in that...Please leave her alone unless you have something productive to say...and that goes for me too... Link to post Share on other sites
Author outofdarkness Posted May 19, 2007 Author Share Posted May 19, 2007 I may be crazy for even going here after the banter on this thread, but do any of you all know anything about something called "Pagegate"? It's apparently a service that allows one to send/rec pages, texts from any comp., phone, etc...I found it on my H's blackberry this morning...A page I mean with a phone # at his comp. exchange..sent last night at 6:30...I have never seen this on his b berry before... PLEASE, if you all could only give me info on this particular subject, if anyone knows anything...Thanks... Link to post Share on other sites
Can'tGiveUp Posted May 19, 2007 Share Posted May 19, 2007 I may be crazy for even going here after the banter on this thread, but do any of you all know anything about something called "Pagegate"? It's apparently a service that allows one to send/rec pages, texts from any comp., phone, etc...I found it on my H's blackberry this morning...A page I mean with a phone # at his comp. exchange..sent last night at 6:30...I have never seen this on his b berry before... PLEASE, if you all could only give me info on this particular subject, if anyone knows anything...Thanks... OOD - I think it is an interface that allows you to receive emails to your Blackberry. The guys I work with all receive their emails to their normal work email addresses as well as their Blackberrys. If they respond back, it shows their work email as the one the email is sent from. I don't know half the time if they are in the office or not because of this. Not sure if that helps... Link to post Share on other sites
Author outofdarkness Posted May 19, 2007 Author Share Posted May 19, 2007 OOD - I think it is an interface that allows you to receive emails to your Blackberry. The guys I work with all receive their emails to their normal work email addresses as well as their Blackberrys. If they respond back, it shows their work email as the one the email is sent from. I don't know half the time if they are in the office or not because of this. Not sure if that helps... Hey, thanks for the reply...I see what you're saying, it's just that for as long as he's had the b berry, I've never seem am email from pagegate onit...or anything on it from pagegate for that matter. I did know that he has a separate work v mail acct b/c the headquarters of his co. is in a different city. Thanks again... Link to post Share on other sites
NearlyThere Posted May 19, 2007 Share Posted May 19, 2007 I may be crazy for even going here after the banter on this thread, but do any of you all know anything about something called "Pagegate"? It's apparently a service that allows one to send/rec pages, texts from any comp., phone, etc...I found it on my H's blackberry this morning...A page I mean with a phone # at his comp. exchange..sent last night at 6:30...I have never seen this on his b berry before... PLEASE, if you all could only give me info on this particular subject, if anyone knows anything...Thanks... PageGate 4.0 is a Wireless Communication product from notepager.com. This program is a wireless messaging server application. It can send SMS and text messages to pagers, mobile phones, PIMs and other wireless devices and can accept messages from many different sources such as networked computers running the PageGate Windows Client program, Email messages that are received in (SMTP) or messages that are collected (POP3), Web pages on an intranet or the Internet (CGI), executables run from the commandline, text files that are scanned for messages, serial ports that receive textual data and data received from a modem connection. Regards NT Link to post Share on other sites
2sunny Posted May 19, 2007 Share Posted May 19, 2007 did you find out anything from putting that little voice recorder in his car? Link to post Share on other sites
Author outofdarkness Posted May 19, 2007 Author Share Posted May 19, 2007 did you find out anything from putting that little voice recorder in his car? To be honest w/ you, I forgot all about it...when I HAVE remembered, he's been out of town..Will do it asap..thanks for reminding me! Link to post Share on other sites
Author outofdarkness Posted May 19, 2007 Author Share Posted May 19, 2007 PageGate 4.0 is a Wireless Communication product from notepager.com. This program is a wireless messaging server application. It can send SMS and text messages to pagers, mobile phones, PIMs and other wireless devices and can accept messages from many different sources such as networked computers running the PageGate Windows Client program, Email messages that are received in (SMTP) or messages that are collected (POP3), Web pages on an intranet or the Internet (CGI), executables run from the commandline, text files that are scanned for messages, serial ports that receive textual data and data received from a modem connection. Regards NT Yes, that helps..I just don't know if this is something they would use for work? I doubt it...It's deleted now, after I was gone this morning...The others are still there, just that one deleted...Thanks for the info.. Link to post Share on other sites
confused_young1 Posted May 20, 2007 Share Posted May 20, 2007 I Agree With Most Of The Others...... Get All Your Ducks In A Row And Attack.... Ohhhh By The Way, What Cellular Provider Has Gps Tracking? Link to post Share on other sites
Author outofdarkness Posted May 20, 2007 Author Share Posted May 20, 2007 I Agree With Most Of The Others...... Get All Your Ducks In A Row And Attack.... Ohhhh By The Way, What Cellular Provider Has Gps Tracking? Thanks and you can check online to see what carriers have gps.. Link to post Share on other sites
GreenEyedLady Posted May 22, 2007 Share Posted May 22, 2007 I second that...thanks gel No problem...I got your back... Link to post Share on other sites
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