NeWyORkeR Posted January 26, 2007 Share Posted January 26, 2007 me and my girlfriend has been together for almost 3 years, we have been doing great in our relationship. she is a nursing student and i am a therapist. although in our relationship, i would say we have those ongoing silly arguements once in a while..but who doesn't? recently, i am getting an apartment of my own and we started talking bout moving in together.. eventually, a lot of issues came up..including our family upbringing and religious beliefs which place us reluctant to be together just like that. She said that she couldn't moved in without being engaged!!!!!! which totally placed me like i am under arrest since for now i am kinda confused and uncertain to commit myself as a fully pledge man. She banged me with these questions every now and then and threatened me that she's leaving for Florida as her parents are moving out in less than a year or so as she currently she lives with them. Any enlightenment i could grab from you guys...highly appreciated! Link to post Share on other sites
norajane Posted January 28, 2007 Share Posted January 28, 2007 You can't change her beliefs about living together without being married. So, if she's thinking she'll move when her parents do, you can ask her to stay, in her own apartment (or with roommates). If she doesn't believe you have a future together, then I can see why she'd make life decisions like that without you. You can't make her stay, especially if you are ambivalent about a commitment. Or you can make a decision about your future together - do you think you will eventually be able to commit to marriage with her? What's holding you back? 3 years is a long time to be with someone - why are you having trouble knowing your own mind? How old are you two? Link to post Share on other sites
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