Snicker_ca78 Posted September 30, 2002 Share Posted September 30, 2002 I am mostly happy with the girl I am with I want to hold onto her as she has helped me alot but she is going to probably have to move 3 hours away from here in about april 2003 . She is looking for work in that area also, I have asked her what will happen to her and I when she moves up there and well she did say that we could try long distance relationship for awhile and there is trains,buses, cars, phones, internet, etc... I agree but also how am I to know if I should hold on or try to walk while it is easier and also I am not sure if I should tell her that I Love her or not I ahve not heard it from her and also I have not really said it either and I am not sure if I shoud. Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted September 30, 2002 Share Posted September 30, 2002 If you really and truly love her, tell her. But at the same time you have to look at this from a practical perspective. If the two of you are going to be three hours apart on a permanent basis, it's going to be very hard to conduct any kind of constructive relationship. If you love her enough to make any and all sacrifices to see her and she feels the same way about you, this may be able to work. Otherwise tell her you love her enough to let her go to find happiness in her new hometown. It takes a lot more love to say goodbye than it does to keep someone around and subject them to pain later. This will be a hard decision for you to make but unless you both have extremely intense feelings for each other and are willing to make major sacrifices to ensure a future together, split now and avoid the April rush! Link to post Share on other sites
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