Girlfriend becomes friends with a suppose to be male friend of mine

[gheemw2007]

My girlfriend became friends with a suppose be male friend of mine with a Huge Ego. They been talking and texting each other late at nite sometimes while she on the phone with me. And she recently started calling him her fake Dad or should i say daddy. And she been acting kinda funny towards me. Also she gets defensive and tells me to shut up when I say something mean about him. And last week she told she wants to "live her life and possibbly go have fun with a male Friend."

 

Is this a way of showing that shes falling 4 him? Or is this a sign that she could already be cheating on me with him? Or could they really just be Friend?

[Citizen Erased]

Everything which you have written screams that she is not fully committed to you. People do not text others at night, call them daddy (with the obvious sexual connotations, unless he is alot older then her?) and then say to their partner they want to have fun and maybe with another person of the opposite sex.

 

You need to confront her about this, ask her what she wants. Dont accuse her of anything, she will be less open to discussion and you will just argue. Ask if she wants to be with you, if she has feelings for anything else, and where she feels your relationship is going. If she refuses to talk then her answer is obvious and you need not even give her a chance as she will not communicate which shows guilt.

 

Noone on here can give you a definete answer, only she can so you need to discuss with her whether you are wasting your time or not. Good Luck.

[gheemw2007]

He is the same age as she is. She told that he says that he is her fake daddy so she calls he him that.

[Guest]

... And last week she told she wants to "live her life and possibbly go have fun with a male Friend."

 

Is this a way of showing that shes falling 4 him? Or is this a sign that she could already be cheating on me with him? Or could they really just be Friend?

 

You have to be kidding right?

 

Show her the door man... she's not worth even trying to keep around.

 

You might want to strike up a new female friend for you to have fun with before kicking her out, but move on one way or the other.