stillhere Posted January 31, 2007 Share Posted January 31, 2007 I havent asked the therapist yet I dont have an appt yet. He just agreed to pay last night. BRV, you can do as you please, but i would never tell Pricillia to go to therapy with her MM. That's just crazy talk. Individual therapy, yes, but not couples. The only way i would recommend couples therapy, is AFTER he got divorced, then that would make more sense. Link to post Share on other sites
Author pricillia Posted January 31, 2007 Author Share Posted January 31, 2007 are you serious? Then what were you getting out of this relationship if you never even talked about your problems? Isn't that what a relationship is about? Loving and emotionally supporting one another? I think you will find you will eventually be in a much better place with him gone. Yes I am serious...how can I rely on him in that respect... I tell him a few things but that is it...nothing too deep. anyway if what kathleen said is true.. and I am being made fun of I really don't think it is smart for me to share at this point but I will say... what have I gotten out of the relationship....I have been there for him, more than he has for me... that is how I feel maybe if you talk to him he may feel differently Link to post Share on other sites
Kathleen Posted January 31, 2007 Share Posted January 31, 2007 Hey Priscillia, I hope you are ok & hanging tough. They do talk about the ow that are on LS. What a shame too. Not to worry though, thier words mean zilch. I just wanted you to know that some of the posters here aren't what they are when they say they are offering advice. (Oh, & by the way Say hello to deedee4ever. She gave the ow here a shout out.) Link to post Share on other sites
Author pricillia Posted January 31, 2007 Author Share Posted January 31, 2007 Pricillia, Beware of who is offering advice here. On another forum, you are named Pissillia & they take the info you post here & post about it overthere. I'm sure as you read this, someone will be talking about me, calfspleen. Hang in there sweetie. There are some here who truely want to help. Is this true? Kathleen I would really like to know what forum this is. Link to post Share on other sites
Author pricillia Posted February 1, 2007 Author Share Posted February 1, 2007 where I am referenced in this other thread. Link to post Share on other sites
Author pricillia Posted February 1, 2007 Author Share Posted February 1, 2007 Hey Priscillia, I hope you are ok & hanging tough. They do talk about the ow that are on LS. What a shame too. Not to worry though, thier words mean zilch. I just wanted you to know that some of the posters here aren't what they are when they say they are offering advice. (Oh, & by the way Say hello to deedee4ever. She gave the ow here a shout out.) Kathleen... why are you posting here and then posting on that other site... Is it me or are you two faced... could just be me though, you truly have some nerve. As for the other site, reguardless of the fact that being a OW is wrong.. the words are hatefull and seem to me that posters on that site well lets say that they are full of hate, rage, hostility, and honestly probably need more help than an OW would any day. Probably don't know how to show compassion towards any one or anything, and if they truly disagree with what an affair is all about then they should try to help instead of complaining about it. I would rather be a OW any day that was loving and caring then to have so much hate in my heart for another person. What are these posters views on diversity and or gay marriages... I could just imagine. please take this post and discuss it on your Yonville, shed forum... feel free, write a book about it if you have to... You people S**k Link to post Share on other sites
noforgiveness Posted February 1, 2007 Share Posted February 1, 2007 Pricilla I'm sorry for you for whatever you had to read. Sounds like it hurt. I have no idea why kathleen would feel the need to continually try to point this other board out except to hurt you. Kind of like when a friend says guess what so and so said about you. Zero reason to tell your friend something hurtful someone said unless you want to hurt that person too. Link to post Share on other sites
Author pricillia Posted February 1, 2007 Author Share Posted February 1, 2007 Pricilla I'm sorry for you for whatever you had to read. Sounds like it hurt. I have no idea why kathleen would feel the need to continually try to point this other board out except to hurt you. Kind of like when a friend says guess what so and so said about you. Zero reason to tell your friend something hurtful someone said unless you want to hurt that person too. Yes it did hurt, um because I am human unlike some other people... Are you a member on that site as well? Link to post Share on other sites
noforgiveness Posted February 1, 2007 Share Posted February 1, 2007 Yes it did hurt, um because I am human unlike some other people... Are you a member on that site as well? no only lurked there when it has been brought up on here and i have never heard a BW bring it up. I can not imagine why an OW would ever mention that site in an ow forum except to see the fireworks begin. From what i've read they don't talk about this site much at all. The board is based on some other site so it doesn't even have anything to do with here. Remember when you were a child and sally would say oh prisilla you will not believe what sue said. Sahe said your haircut makes you look so fat and ugly. Why would sally say that? To hurt your feelings. Nothing good comes from pointing out nasties that others have said unless you want to hurt them. Classless actually. Link to post Share on other sites
yousaveme Posted February 1, 2007 Share Posted February 1, 2007 Think I might get sick with this one. :sick: OMG Yea, you have never been on there. But as soon as I had a certain thread on here. And you posted a reply. How quick was it that a thread on that site was about me. HMMMMM But whatever gets you through. no only lurked there when it has been brought up on here and i have never heard a BW bring it up. I can not imagine why an OW would ever mention that site in an ow forum except to see the fireworks begin. From what i've read they don't talk about this site much at all. The board is based on some other site so it doesn't even have anything to do with here. Remember when you were a child and sally would say oh prisilla you will not believe what sue said. Sahe said your haircut makes you look so fat and ugly. Why would sally say that? To hurt your feelings. Nothing good comes from pointing out nasties that others have said unless you want to hurt them. Classless actually. Link to post Share on other sites
noforgiveness Posted February 1, 2007 Share Posted February 1, 2007 Think I might get sick with this one. :sick: OMG Yea, you have never been on there. But as soon as I had a certain thread on here. And you posted a reply. How quick was it that a thread on that site was about me. HMMMMM But whatever gets you through. That's interesting. and what exactly is my user name? You know I am not one to hide behind different names. Maybe more than just me read your post. Hmmmmm ya think? Link to post Share on other sites
Babybird Posted February 1, 2007 Share Posted February 1, 2007 I'm not sure if you feel comfortable talking here anymore but I hope your MM has let you know what going on in his head. It's bad enough when you KNOW somethings wrong but it's like torture when they won't talk to you about it. Especially when he loves so close. I gotta give you credit...I don't think I could've resisted going to his house ... ok knocking on his door. As far as your stepmother goes... how awful!! Do you have a 401K you could borrow from? That you would be helping yourself and paying yourself back the interest. How about a consolidation loan for any existing debt? You could [robably get a low interest rate and make your payments smaller. Then you could save faster to get the hell out of there. P.S. Who gives a crap if other people are talking about you!!! In the short time I have been at LS your posts have always been direct, but not rude, funny, friendly and helpful. DOn't let their talk ruin the support you can get here!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Author pricillia Posted February 1, 2007 Author Share Posted February 1, 2007 That's interesting. and what exactly is my user name? You know I am not one to hide behind different names. Maybe more than just me read your post. Hmmmmm ya think? Maybe not NF... but you were pretty angry in the begging of your posting here. It just makes me wonder. Link to post Share on other sites
noforgiveness Posted February 1, 2007 Share Posted February 1, 2007 Maybe not NF... but you were pretty angry in the begging of your posting here. It just makes me wonder. Of course I was. Who would not be angry. I had a double betrayal and went looking for an infidelity board to get insight then found this board. Since my post was mostly about the OW since she was a close friend I mistakenly put it here and then one very BITTER numerous times reincarnated on here OW went after me over and over and over. THAT was the anger. You may want to reread my first post. It was extremely painful how callously the ow treated me. Link to post Share on other sites
Author pricillia Posted February 1, 2007 Author Share Posted February 1, 2007 Of course I was. Who would not be angry. I had a double betrayal and went looking for an infidelity board to get insight then found this board. Since my post was mostly about the OW since she was a close friend I mistakenly put it here and then one very BITTER numerous times reincarnated on here OW went after me over and over and over. THAT was the anger. You may want to reread my first post. It was extremely painful how callously the ow treated me. I never went after you...never. eh what the hell.... Now I know not to trust anyone ever again. Link to post Share on other sites
noforgiveness Posted February 1, 2007 Share Posted February 1, 2007 I never went after you...never. eh what the hell.... Now I know not to trust anyone ever again. I never said you did. I agree I will never trust anyone in cyberlife or real life again. Not after my bf and h. Nothing can shatter trust like that. I was just explaining why I was so angry here in th beginning. I've left that unhappy place now. I'm actually very happy now but will never trust anyone again. Link to post Share on other sites
Author pricillia Posted February 1, 2007 Author Share Posted February 1, 2007 Well my other post got deleated, I am not suprised...does not matter anyway, I said what I had to say. I have a voice and I am not going away... So to all you trolls(perfect beings) People make mistakes and stay in situations longer than they should in hopes that it will all work out. In my case I doubt it will, he has not called me today as we talked last night, I am messed up, and not sure if he is as well. The only thing I know is how I feel, and I am feeling guilty, unloved and sad right now. And I am not sure if I lost my "soul mate" the relationship was not going anywhere becuase there was not where for it to go. I wanted honesty and integrity and I can not get that from him right now. Link to post Share on other sites
Author pricillia Posted February 1, 2007 Author Share Posted February 1, 2007 I never said you did. I agree I will never trust anyone in cyberlife or real life again. Not after my bf and h. Nothing can shatter trust like that. I was just explaining why I was so angry here in th beginning. I've left that unhappy place now. I'm actually very happy now but will never trust anyone again. Well I would be angry too, and I am angry... oh there goes those emotions again right up there with love and intamacy... How dare I!!! Link to post Share on other sites
yousaveme Posted February 1, 2007 Share Posted February 1, 2007 Blah Blah Blah... whatever gets you through sweetie...whatever gets you through;) That's interesting. and what exactly is my user name? You know I am not one to hide behind different names. Maybe more than just me read your post. Hmmmmm ya think? Link to post Share on other sites
Kathleen Posted February 1, 2007 Share Posted February 1, 2007 I Am Not A Member Of Yawnville. If You Wanna Know If It's True, Just Go There & Check It Out. You'll See. Link to post Share on other sites
NearlyThere Posted February 1, 2007 Share Posted February 1, 2007 I wanted to send you a PM, but it says your mailbox is full !!!! Link to post Share on other sites
stillhere Posted February 1, 2007 Share Posted February 1, 2007 Pricillia~ I know you are having a hard time. Please do not visit yawnville anymore, those women there have some serious issues. If they would just put all that extra effort and energy into something worthwhile, they could possibly eliminate world hunger!! Their words mean nothing, they are just words. Sticks and stones..................... Anyways, girl, you have enough on your plate. Do not feel guilty because you have absolutely no reason to. He is the one who should feel guilty for putting you through all this. You trusted him, you gave your heart to him, there is nothing wrong with that. Concentrate on you. You are the most important person in this mess. You will come out of this much stronger and more aware. Some day you will be able to give your heart to another man, and it will be someone who will appreciate it and he will give his heart to you as well. Although the future doesn't look so bright right now, it will get better, i promise you. Someday, yes someday, you will look back and see that this was all a learning experience, and you will kick yourself for ever feeling guilty about a man who was being selfish and cruel. (((HUGS Pricillia))) Keep your chin up sweetie, there is a light at the end of the tunnel, you just have to keep moving forward instead of taking those few steps back every once in a while. Link to post Share on other sites
BenThereDunThat Posted February 1, 2007 Share Posted February 1, 2007 I finally took the time to have a look at Yawnville. I put it off because I thought it was just going to piss me off. Actually, I found it extremely amusing! Repetitive and crass, but amusing. What's this Oz site they keep referring to? Link to post Share on other sites
BedRoomVoice Posted February 1, 2007 Share Posted February 1, 2007 what is this place everyone is talking about? Is it another support group? Right now I can use all the help I can get I feel so depressed Link to post Share on other sites
Kathleen Posted February 1, 2007 Share Posted February 1, 2007 Don't Bother Going There. Dumb Arses Over There Can't Help Anyone. Link to post Share on other sites
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