EXP Posted October 3, 2002 Share Posted October 3, 2002 I have just found out that the guy that I have been seeing and in love with is married with kids. What do I do? I am so sad ! Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted October 3, 2002 Share Posted October 3, 2002 It's far better you find out now than marry him and have to go through a big court trial for his bigamy. Celebrate that he is out of your life...just in time. You were defrauded, lied to, played for a fool. We've all been there. Tell his butt off and never see or speak with him again in all your days on this earth. Then go about the process of healing and building a capacity for trust. Now, I have to tell you one thing. There is no human way you can see a married man with children over any period of time without getting hints. Maybe you should take more cold showers and pay much more attention. You have to take some responsiblity here. I say he's 75 percent to blame for deceiving you and you are 25 percent to blame for NOT PAYING ATTENTION!!! This love stuff isn't easy. You have got to pay attention during the courting process or you will be eaten alive. I'm very sorry this happened to you but my bet is it won't even happen again...not quite this way. Link to post Share on other sites
butterflyz Posted October 4, 2002 Share Posted October 4, 2002 you send him packing and remember how he tricked you so you'll be one up on the next idiot that crosses your path. Link to post Share on other sites
Debster Posted December 23, 2002 Share Posted December 23, 2002 And thank god that you found out about it. Next time, don't let yourself fall in love so quickly. Link to post Share on other sites
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