Author spiritualpsb Posted February 9, 2007 Author Share Posted February 9, 2007 i'm not going to believe any of his lies, even though i know he will try to turn it around on me. nothing justifies what he done. i'm not leaving and letting him thing that he got over on me. we have lived together for over 2 yrs. what was he thinking? he was going to just keep dating me til he found what he wanted on the personals? Link to post Share on other sites
SueBee3490 Posted February 9, 2007 Share Posted February 9, 2007 Yes please quit saying you are a fool - you are not the fool - he is. I, like you, trusted my bf too. I wanted to believe that he loved me just as much as I loved him. I wanted to believe him when he would say how much he loved me and how lucky he was to have found me - all the while cheating on me behind my back. I felt so incredibly stupid too but people on LS would tell me that he was the loser - not me. I know how hard it is to go through this and really get smacked in the face when you find out the truth. I went through the denial stage too where I just could not believe this man I loved would do that to me. Then I started questioning everything and everybody in my life. I trusted nobody. I put my kids through h*ll because I just knew they were lying to me. It's a miserable way to live all because one person can do something so life shattering to you, to make your whole world just turn upside down. You are right nothing justifies the cheating but you are lucky to get out of this relationship before you went any farther or even marrying the guy. I wasn't so lucky - I married my bf not knowing he had been cheating on me the whole 2 1/2 yrs of dating me. I wish I could go back now and take back those years he stole from me. My bf also went online to find other women to cheat with. I wondered too if I was just a doormat for him until he could find something "better". I know it sure makes your self-esteem go in the toilet especially when I saw pictures of the other women he saw - most were pretty scary Good luck on making the decision to move on with you life - you're worth alot more than the way this guy is treating you. Link to post Share on other sites
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