Guest Posted February 1, 2007 Share Posted February 1, 2007 I just planning on proposing for many months. I know I am not the only going through this, so I know there are many men out there that enjoy to torture their girlfriends for months and some even years. And then when we complain about, even is in our face that we are pressuring them, when all we want them to do is stop bringing it up and just do it when they are ready. I feel it sort of ruins the whole romance. I mean when my parents got engaged, my father didn't torture my mom, instead, when he felt it was right, he just proposed to her and she was totally surprised. How romantic is that!!! Link to post Share on other sites
VinaAmez Posted February 2, 2007 Share Posted February 2, 2007 Yes some of them can be big meanies. Think it's funny to watch us get our panties in a bunch. Some get kicks out of it, especially if they know she will say yes. But not all guys do that. Some are nervous among other things. Link to post Share on other sites
michelangelo Posted February 2, 2007 Share Posted February 2, 2007 He's one person doing this and you are one person reacting to his actions. Not all men do this, nor do all women react as you are. I'm thinking you ought to communicate with him about your sensitivity to this type of teasing, that you don't like it. If he simply can't stop doing this, do you really want to put up with it for decades? If he could stop it, but doesn't know you don't like it, you should speak up and he'll stop it. Link to post Share on other sites
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