snicker_ca78 Posted October 14, 2002 Share Posted October 14, 2002 I have been with this girl for 5 months and I helped her out by getting a bird that she wanted. I loaned her the money she needed and well since I have loaned her the money she ahs been tired every night now and also to busy to talk to me but when she needed/ wants something she will call and talk to me. I am off work at the present time because of illness that I have not explained it all to her alot as I don't want her to know that I am this ill, I have been getting better and that is because of medicaine. Anyways I am wondering if I have been used and that I am out the money and she is just playing me what do you all think?? Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted October 14, 2002 Share Posted October 14, 2002 It doesn't take an Albert Einstein to figure out she has you pegged for a sucker. Anybody who only calls you or is only nice to you when they want something is a total and complete user. There are lots of them out there. They are everywhere, like roaches hiding between the cracks. And just how do you figure you were helping her out by buying her a bird??? She was just trying to see how much of a sucker you were. She needed a bird about as much as you need another penis. This is not rocket science. This is real basic stuff. Don't go out of your way for somebody unless you are absolutely sure they care about you in a meaningful way. And even then, do your kindnesses in an intermittent way so they are not predictable and the lady doesn't grow to take you for granted. Dust this lady and forget the bird money. The lesson was worth the money and you have the satisfaction that you gave her the bird before you got out of her life. You won't get a penny back from her in a thousand years! Link to post Share on other sites
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