sueidaho Posted February 2, 2007 Share Posted February 2, 2007 I have broken up with my bf of 7 months. regretted horrible the day after. fast forward 3 weeks. i still haven't tried NC, but now going to try it. even quit my one job we work together at(which by the way he asked me why and i was stupid for quiting). my thing is I have talked with him 3 different times and begged him for some time. this last time he still says he wants me to get over my feelings for him because he has no feelings for me since the break up. however he also has mentioned in the same sentence of never going out again and get over my feelings and the ...."if we get back together". i am just wondering ifhe is just saying everything to make me go away the "i'll give you time and if we get together again."???????????? If maybe just maybe if i disappear he will consider? ANy insights anyone??? Link to post Share on other sites
notmakingsense Posted February 5, 2007 Share Posted February 5, 2007 I have broken up with my bf of 7 months. regretted horrible the day after. fast forward 3 weeks. i still haven't tried NC, but now going to try it. even quit my one job we work together at(which by the way he asked me why and i was stupid for quiting). my thing is I have talked with him 3 different times and begged him for some time. this last time he still says he wants me to get over my feelings for him because he has no feelings for me since the break up. however he also has mentioned in the same sentence of never going out again and get over my feelings and the ...."if we get back together". i am just wondering ifhe is just saying everything to make me go away the "i'll give you time and if we get together again."???????????? If maybe just maybe if i disappear he will consider? ANy insights anyone??? You need to listen and believe what he said. Don't try to second-guess anything else. You have done what you can to ask for him back, and he doesn't want you. Your best bet right now is to move on -- because, yes, if you do dissappear, he will miss you. If he misses you enough to want you back, he'll contact you. In the mean-time, don't think about whether or not he will want you back. Instead, just try to get yourself to the point where you don't care. When you are at this point, that is when you will be the most attractive to him -- or to other men -- and you will be more able to make the right choice for yourself. Link to post Share on other sites
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