Jump to content

Losing my style


bollywood

Recommended Posts

Hey, new to the forums in seek of assistance. I had a quick peek on google about forums which provide assistance for people that are in need of a few tips, took me a while to muster up the courage to post here thinking its quite shameful, but oh well.

 

Anyway, My names julian. Im 19 years old, living in New zealand and I've got a few relationship issues. Actually, its more like - not being able to get a girl =P

Now, I have not had a girlfriend for a long time now, I think if I add em' all up it would make 2 years. I've got mates who all have a beautiful relationship with their partners, yet I'm stuck in this cosmic whirlpool of depression, where I constantly worry about my physical appearance, how I talk to girls and other factors as well. Im longing for a partner, to share my time with, yet I cant seem to muster up the courage to ever talk to them, thinking If I by some slim chance manage to "Score", I wont be able to keep the relationship going because of my lazy lifestyle.

Another problem I deal with is actually "scoring" - (That word doesnt make me sound shallow does it? =P). I talk to them about the basics, you know, like "Hows your day", "What you been up to", but I never seem to show a sense of humour or seem interesting enough.

 

Anyway times running out so I'll get to the point. Im looking for help on this subject, explaining to me how woman feel and think in these situations, and How I can improve my self confidence.

 

Thanks

Julian

Link to post
Share on other sites
×
×
  • Create New...