thecount Posted February 4, 2007 Share Posted February 4, 2007 Hi all, I don't know, or understand what the F**k she wants from me? She keeps saying I love you, I want you, I want to be with you, but yet she keeps calling her ex. Why? Am I missing something here? She told me that she doesn't find him attractive, he's just someone to talk to other then me. Her therapist said he's like a family member that you talk to every now and then. They were together for 5 years. She and I were together for a year and a half. Her therapist told her to call him when she feels the need to talk to someone. If she wants to be with me, that's what she's going to have to do, because I don't like it. And the therapist doesn't think it's healthy for her either. Yet, eveytime I give her another chance she blows it by calling him. I love this girl, for some strange reason i still love her, and I have every reason to HAET her, and yet, I would love nothing more then to give her another chance, but words are not what I want. I want actions. I can't do anything with her words anymore. Saying I love you just doesn't mean anything anymore. Prove it, but how? How does someone prove their love for you?, what do I have to do in order to forgive her? Forgivness,-- how the hell does someone forgive? Everytime I think of all the crap she put me through I want to cringe, and then I find her gross. Like I don't even want to think about her. Then sometime passes, she calls says the right thing, and there I go again, all ga ga, but it's all in vain. because then I think of the past, and I can't, or won't let it go. so how the hell do you forgive the person you love, who just happens to hurt you? Link to post Share on other sites
westernxer Posted February 4, 2007 Share Posted February 4, 2007 so how the hell do you forgive the person you love, who just happens to hurt you? You dump them. Link to post Share on other sites
tragicglands Posted February 4, 2007 Share Posted February 4, 2007 How does someone prove their love for you? By cutting off ties with her ex... if that's what you want. Link to post Share on other sites
Author thecount Posted February 4, 2007 Author Share Posted February 4, 2007 I dont know what it is about her that makes me go back. In the past women that treated me like that, I never answerd another call ever again, but this girl just says something and I buy right into it? what the hell is wrong with me? I can't even blame her anymore. It's true what people say. First time shame on you, second time shame on me, and it's true. Shame on me for letting her string me along. I told her what I wanted. I couldn't have been more clear. Love me. Thats it. If you're in a relationship it's something you suppose to do. Love the one you're with. Link to post Share on other sites
CaliGuy Posted February 4, 2007 Share Posted February 4, 2007 I dont know what it is about her that makes me go back. In the past women that treated me like that, I never answerd another call ever again, but this girl just says something and I buy right into it? what the hell is wrong with me? I can't even blame her anymore. It's true what people say. First time shame on you, second time shame on me, and it's true. Shame on me for letting her string me along. I told her what I wanted. I couldn't have been more clear. Love me. Thats it. If you're in a relationship it's something you suppose to do. Love the one you're with. I agree with WXER. If she won't break her ties to her ex then what she is saying is not jiving with what she is doing. In other words don't believe what she is saying believe what she is doing. Break up with her. If she really wants to be with you she will break off contact with her ex. Link to post Share on other sites
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