ex bf

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I dated this guy for two years. We each then dated another person for about a year. Now we have been seeing each other again.

 

I guess I should start with our background. I was a CRAZY jealous girlfriend. All you really need to know is that it was probably worse than any case you've ever heard. We broke up because of that. Then, about four months after that we hung out a couple of times again, but he decided I hadnt changed.

 

Fast forward to now- we have both been brken up with our others for like three months. We started hanging out again. He comes over on average two times a week for the past month. We hang out and have sex. I am not at all like I used to be I've matured a lot. I was not jealous with my last bf.

 

HOWEVER... I DONT KNOW HOW HE FEELS.

 

- he does not call or text everyday, usually just the day after he comes over, or occasionally will surprise me with a text message saying "good morning beautiful" or something like that.

 

-we have hung out with my friends a lot (all girls) in a group. one weekend when i went away, he asked them if they wanted to hang out (it didnt end up happening but thats beside the point). i think its weird. they think its nice that hes trying to get to know my friends. what do you think?

 

-my roommate saw him hanging out at the mall alone with a girl that i know (but he didnt know that i knew her and she didnt know that i knew him). The girl is half deaf which whether this sounds bad or not im not sure he would be interested in someone with a hearing problem. also, she makes friends very easily, she did with me. they both have jobs at the mall and both he and her said that they were just hanging out. again, what do you think?

 

Here is what my friends think: they say that they can tell by how he acts with me that he likes me. They also think that he is taking it slow and not rushing into anything with me at all because of our past problems. They think he really wants to make sure that I am a different person. Also, we both just got out of serious relationships.

 

Here is what I think: He doesn't like me enough to pursue something. He is having fun.

 

Last point: he does SOME sweet things like bring over a candy that he remembered i loved. he likes to talk about past memories we had together (good ones! haha). He says stuff like I will always be his #1 girl etc.

 

I DONT KNOW HOW TO READ THIS GUY!!! SOMEBODY HELP!!!! PS it really bothers me that he was hanging out with the girl that I know. That may make me sound jealos like I used to be bt that isnt the case. Its just that I know her and I dont want him dating other people but what would i do?

 

PLEASE HELP ME THANKS IN ADVANCE

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someone please help! thanks!