Confuggled_one Posted February 5, 2007 Share Posted February 5, 2007 Hey, So things were goin okay with my 2nd attempt to reconcile. but things arent goin the right way as of now. she said as of now no more chances.. she has to focus on school.. make her parents happy and focus on her life. she needs to fix her flaws, etc. and feels that we depend on eachother too much. so right now do you guys think I should play hopeful and keep trying.. or just move on with my life? Thanks guys.. -CO Link to post Share on other sites
bubbalump Posted February 5, 2007 Share Posted February 5, 2007 Well, im not too familiar with your story. But she says she is busy with school now, i would think you should respect her wishes and give her space. Otherwise you'll look clingly and if she is busy, just a pain in the ass. Link to post Share on other sites
Kamille Posted February 5, 2007 Share Posted February 5, 2007 Hey Hi Confuggled! I'm so sorry things aren't working out! I'm sure you tried your best - which probably only adds to the confusion, right? I've been in a relationship that just didn't work out despite the best intentions of both partners and it was incredibly confusing. I kept thinking that someday we would figure out the formula that would mean we could be together. We've been broken up for two years since feb 3. We had no contact for a year and a half and are now friends and very proud of each other's accomplishments. And finally both at peace we the fact that we weren't meant to be together. I agree with bubalump. I think your ex means what she says right now. I'm intrigued by the 'she feels... she needs to fix her flaws' part. So it is time for you to put all your energy in moving on. Hopefully, this time the two of you can manage a clean break. So here's me wishing you strenght and courage for the upcoming challenges. And you know where to find us anytime you need to rant and agonize. Link to post Share on other sites
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