Blondie4 Posted October 18, 2002 Share Posted October 18, 2002 Me and this kid go way back like we liked each other about 2 years ago but were unable to hook up b/c his ex g/f was one of my friends and i didnt want to hurt her! So we lost touch for about 6 monthes then my friend gets a b/f which is friends with the kid and she tells me that the kid likes me again. i got all excited but then i thought wait he hasnt seen me in a long time and she was like yeah but he never stopped likeing u! so my friend started takin me around him more but then homecoming came and he didnt want to go so i asked someone else which he was sort of friends with but they didnt talk much. he heard that i liked the kid that i was supposed to go to homecoming with which i didnt but he thought that i did, even after the kid ditched me for homcoming he still thought that i liked him. well then he got real angry at me but the truth was i did like the kid and it was killing me to have him mad at me! so we lost touch again. and he began to like one of my friends which gets around this made me mad but it ended up that she dont like him and me and him havebeen hanging out again and i really like him alot but he is having mixed feelings on what to do i think it is on a trust issue b/c of the whole homecoming issue. i dont kmnow what to do i flirt with him all the time and he flirts back but then he gets in these moods were he is a total a**h*** to everyone! also i dont know how much i will be able to see him i mean we live close. but i cant have my friend traveling back and forth to take me there and bring me home even tho he likves about 20 minutes away (not with in walking distance) help!...... Link to post Share on other sites
Ally Boo Posted October 18, 2002 Share Posted October 18, 2002 I would just play it cool...he seems kinda emotionally random. I wouldn't get too wrapped up in anything with this guy...just yet. It could cause you some pain. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Blondie4 Posted October 18, 2002 Author Share Posted October 18, 2002 Thats what I was thinking but the girl that I am always with when I see him always is like he likes u he is just scared. I already like him alot I didnt want to start to but I did so now i dont know what to do b/c I just cant stop my feelings know what I mean? Link to post Share on other sites
yes Posted October 18, 2002 Share Posted October 18, 2002 tell your friend to shut up... - politely though. tell her "thanks for information, but i'd rather find out from the guy himself"... and just sit back, relax, flirt with him if you like... - if he does like you - he'll come around. but don't concentrate on him - he ain't worth your time & thoughts yet! that's my 2 cents, -yes Link to post Share on other sites
Author Blondie4 Posted October 19, 2002 Author Share Posted October 19, 2002 Thanks for the advice! I was with him last night and we al hung out and he started out acting kinda shady but then towards the end of the night he was all flirty and with me the whole time! When I was gettin ready to leave I wanted to see what he would do if I didnt give him a hug so I just said bye then he he was like where is my hug so i gave him one and he said that he didnt want to let go so i dont know what to think......... Link to post Share on other sites
Ally Boo Posted October 21, 2002 Share Posted October 21, 2002 Sounds to me like your friend is trying to play match maker, and isn't doing a very good job. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Blondie4 Posted October 23, 2002 Author Share Posted October 23, 2002 The past weekend I was with him all weekend and he was sp nice to me i wasnt supposed to go out friday but he wanted me to go so he had my friend call me (he is shy) but she told me that he wanted me to go! so i went and i was with him the whole night and this one kind said something about me that was kinda perverted and he got mad (not at me) and i wanted a drink and the kid was over there and so he went with me to get a drink so i thought that, that was sweet and the rest of the night went good as well! well Sunday came and i was with him and my friend and her b/f and his friends and things also went well. then i didnt see him Monday but i did Tuesday and Tuesday didnt go so well we all hung out and i was cold so he gave me his sweat shirt and i was sittin on the ground and iwas making sure that i wasnt gettin his sweat shirt dirty but he flipped out b/.c he thought that iw as getting it dirty and he said guve me my sweatshirt and when i started to take it off he said no keep it and mummbled something cocky and smart at me so i took it off and throw it at him well i ended up starting to cry so i went for a lil walk when i came back he was sittin in the car and i went over to him and asked what was wrong and all that he did was strug then i asked if he was mad and he shrugged again so then i got in the car and as soon as i got in he got out! so after a while we decided to go somewhere else with everyone and i said that i had to talk to him and i told him how i felt and once again he just shrugged and i began to cry and i walked away (he didnt know that i was crying) well later on when we were gettin ready to leave his hat was in the car and he didnt have my cell number b/c he isd never home and i am usually with him so i gave it to him and i said please call me we have alot of talkin to do and he said alrright but he wouldnt be home till 12:30 and asked if i would be up i said that i would and he said that he would call and he gave me my hug and i left well he never called but my friend said not to worry about it b/c he was probably tired and just went to bed but i didnt see him today and i cant get ahold of him b.c he is never home he is always out with his friends and i cant go see him b/c my car is broken! so i dont know when i will see him b/c i go with my friend but she just started a new job so idk when she will be around him. He goes through mood swings very easily and everyone told me not to take him seriously that he dont mean it that he just goes thro the mood swings. idk what to do i like him alot and no matter what he does i cant stay mad but i am hurt and i want to know what is going on and he is shy so it is hard for him to talk about his feelings and i never know what his reaction is gonna be to things so i am scared to say some things or ask some things what do i do i feel for him.............? Link to post Share on other sites
Ally Boo Posted October 25, 2002 Share Posted October 25, 2002 FORGET HIM HE'S EMOTIONALLY RANDOM AND YOU DONT NEED THAT KIND OF DRAMA, DO YOU?!?!?!?! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Blondie4 Posted October 26, 2002 Author Share Posted October 26, 2002 Thats what I have been trying to do I havent seen him for a few days and I am feeling better but I might run into him tonight so i dont know how that is going to go. They say he is playing hard to get well how hard does he have to play he doesnt have to me and assh*le to play hard to get. I dont know it is going to be hard to move on b/c I hang out with his friends and he is always there so I will have to see him or give up my friends and I dont give up friends for guys! Link to post Share on other sites
Ally Boo Posted October 26, 2002 Share Posted October 26, 2002 Guys dont need to play hard to get. And you don't need to be chasing him. If he's to dense to see what you are, then you don't need him. Why waste your time? Do you hate not having a bf that much? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Blondie4 Posted October 27, 2002 Author Share Posted October 27, 2002 U are right and I made up my mind that I am no longer wasting my timeon him and getting hurt I havent seen him in like 5 days and he hasnt called so he must not be playing hard to get! But now I am in need on some advice the kid that i was supposed to go to homecoming with (the one that ditched me) was with me and my friends last night and he asked me to dance and we danced 4 songs and he has this thing were he only asks u to dance if he likes u but then on e the last 2 songs he danced with this one girl but she asked him and his friend made him and he looked at me ands said sorry what does that mean and hen the next day i called him to see what he was up to and we endd up going to the movies i dont know if i should think of this as a friend hing or more. and i also dfont knoww what to do b/c he did ditch me for homecoming but he is a really nice guys oidk advice..... Link to post Share on other sites
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