JrobBrokenheart Posted February 7, 2007 Share Posted February 7, 2007 hello everyone My gf broke up with me on new years day, after 10.5 months together. we always got along great, were extremely close, barely ever fought, and never had trouble working through our problems. However, during the month of december, i worked nearly every day, seeing her for only an hour or two each day. On my days off, we chilled at my house, but i really didnt entertain her very much. She started to get very bored, but didnt tell me. During this time, she hung out with her two best friends while i worked, and spent lots of time with them and their older brother (i think you see where this is headed). On New Years day, after i finished working, i spent some time with her, and went home to rest and be happy that the month of nonstop on the job. She called me crying and told me that she wasnt happy anymore, and she wanted to break it off but remain friends, and i let her go. The first couple of weeks were tough, as i sort of tried to convince her to come back, which pushed her further away. She started dating her friends brother a week and a half after the split. Hes 20 and shes 16. I have begun NC, and have not initiated conversation for 2 weeks, altough she calls or text messages me every few days( We are getting along and not fighting). I have bought a few ebooks online, and am implementing those methods to try and get her back. Any insights or tips? Will she last with this guy? We had a great relationship, will she miss it and come back? Link to post Share on other sites
chryssy83 Posted February 8, 2007 Share Posted February 8, 2007 She's 16? How old are you? Link to post Share on other sites
notmakingsense Posted February 8, 2007 Share Posted February 8, 2007 Shes 16 -- nothing ever lasts at 16. Just let her go and remain out of contact. She might come back to you, but this isn't something you should "try for". She should be the one that does all the work to get you back. Also, you didn't do anything wrong. If you were working hard, yet still seeing her a few hours a day -- that's plenty. She's just young and wants to explore -- this could last until her 20's. Don't let it get to you. In fact -- you should be doing the same thing. Get out there and date more girls. Figure out what type of girl you get along with best. Link to post Share on other sites
Author JrobBrokenheart Posted February 9, 2007 Author Share Posted February 9, 2007 im 18 by the way Link to post Share on other sites
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