whos that girl Posted February 10, 2007 Share Posted February 10, 2007 I dont know if I am posting this in the right place. Ive tried really hard to handle this certain situation and Ive been through a lot and I thought I could handle this - obviously not... I met my husband a couple of years ago. He had 1 daughter and I have a boy and a girl - both from previous marriages- Visiting at HIS parents house one day - I brought my babies with me and his parents made it quite clear that my children were not allowed in their house. That their house was for HIS daughter only ... We moved shortly after that closer to MY family 5 states away! Since the beginning HIS parents want nothing to do with my kids or me and now that we have OUR OWN BABY on the way THEY want nothing to do with her either. His parents do everything they can to make sure he gets to see his daughter. And of course he goes for it - he should - thats his daughter. They fly him back for his weekend visits with his daughter. THEY DO EVERYTHING FOR HIS DAUGHTER... I cant handle the fact that his parents want nothing to do with even OUR own baby. They make me feel like I was never good enough. And I dont want any of my children to feel like they werent good enough. I didnt have a family growing up. I want my kids to have a great family with grandparents. What do I do . I Love him. And all ive ever wanted was a family. I cant make him choose nor should I have to .. I dont want to but I dont know what to do. Please help.. If you have any other questions please to further help your answer Please ask.. I need all the help I can get right now.Thanks For Listening!!! Link to post Share on other sites
EnigmasMuse Posted February 10, 2007 Share Posted February 10, 2007 Has your husband talked to his parents and asked them WHY they act this way towards you and your kids? I understand you feel you need acceptance from them, but luckily you all live further away from them and not something you have to deal with on a daily basis. How does your husband feel about it? Does it not bother him? What has he told you, about how it makes him feel with the way his parents treat you? Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted February 10, 2007 Share Posted February 10, 2007 You're going to have to give abit of background history here so we can help you more. Stuff like, how long were you and him together, did you two hook up before or after divorcing your spouses? It has to be something......Or maybe not. Maybe they're just idiots and don't want to get to know you. I don't know. Either way, I think you ought to talk to your H about this, and also be the bigger person here, and open up lines of communication with his folks - TALK to them, ask them why they don't like you, your children and ask why they are acting the way they are. Link to post Share on other sites
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