SoSweet23 Posted February 10, 2007 Share Posted February 10, 2007 Ok. I met this man last July. We talked on and off for 5 months. I finally decided to let him take me out after him asking and me agreeing but then cancelling at the last minute. We went out, had a great time, so much so that we met up later that evening to catch a movie after we'd already gone out to lunch that afternoon. So we were really intense, we went out almost every day, he called me at least 3 times a day, he texted me a few times a day too. He met me folks too. That didn't go over so well though because he "forgot his wallet." I still don't know if that was on purpose or really a mistake. Then I met his best friend who I could tell did not like me at all. Later that day, my man tells me that his friend says I'm not good for him and that my man and I should just be friends because we're not going to work out over the long term, AND, his friend told my man that my man needs to choose between his friendship and me. They'd been friends for years by the way. The next day, my man tells me that he and I need to stop dating and just be friends so we can get to know each other better and then see if we're meant to be for the long term. I told him no, I did not want to do that because that decision is based on what his friend told him and if I agree to that, there is a chance that in the future another friend could come to him and tell him the same thing and then we'd be back at where we were at that point. So basically our relationship was over. Later that same day the man calls me and says that he's made a mistake and he wants us to keep things as they were. I told him no, he's made his decision. He called and called, and called, came to my house, and texted me, and continued this for about 3 weeks. That was mid-December. So its been almost 2 months now and I'd called him last night to check the status of something and we ended up chatting for a few minutes. He asked me for a second chance. He wanted to take me out to dinner tonight or brunch on Sunday. I initially told him no and that I didn't know if I could trus him. So he asked me how can I know if I can trust him if I don't let him take me out or talk with him. He had a good point. He said he'll call me today... I'd like some feedback and advice from both males and females, PLEASE. Link to post Share on other sites
daphne Posted February 13, 2007 Share Posted February 13, 2007 I don't know if I'd give it another shot, to be honest. If he's that impressionable that he's stupid enough to let his friend run his love life, he might let him do it again. And you sound over it. The next time, it'll hurt worse because you'll beat yourself for letting him back in. He doesn't sound stable enough to have a relationship. Link to post Share on other sites
MoonGirl Posted February 13, 2007 Share Posted February 13, 2007 I agree with Daphne. There are many other, more stable men around who know what they want and don't let their friends or family run their lives. This guy betrayed you once, and he'll probably do it again. Imagine marrying a guy like this, having kids, and then watching him walk out your door. Yuck! Link to post Share on other sites
Krytellan Posted February 13, 2007 Share Posted February 13, 2007 So its been almost 2 months now and I'd called him last night to check the status of something I love it. Why can't you just be honest and say it was because you wanted to talk to him? Link to post Share on other sites
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