Sylky Posted February 12, 2007 Share Posted February 12, 2007 My ex and I broke up around 4 months ago. He broke it off with me and I was devastated, thinking I would never ever get over him and he was the one for me. Anyway, I started seeing someone else, knew he wasn't a long term guy but had so much fun with him and there was so much chemistry between him and I. I told my ex about him and then ex wanted to get back together. So I told this other guy that I should give it another go with my ex. I've just spent the weekend with my ex and the spark seems to have gone a bit. I thought that it would be strong but it's nowhere near as what it was like with the new guy. Is this normal? I know it will take some time to get back to where we are but maybe too much has happened since we broke up... Link to post Share on other sites
the_total_package Posted February 12, 2007 Share Posted February 12, 2007 that is too bad. Sounds like the ex only asked to get back together when you started seeing someone else and that isn't an act of love, that is an act of jealousy in my opinion. Because why did it take you dating someone else for him to ask to get back together? If he really in his heart loved you and wanted to get back together, it shouldn't have taken another guy to do that. I'm sorry, I think you were too quick to just jump back with your ex and I don't think it is going to last for too long, since you are indicating there were problems with your relationship when you broke up and you are sensing something is "off" now. i hope you didn't blow a really good thing by dumping the other guy to go back to a relationship that wasn't working and wont' work anyway. Sorry to be straight with you. Link to post Share on other sites
thecount Posted February 12, 2007 Share Posted February 12, 2007 Ok, it'll never be back to where it used to be. So get that out of your head. You were giving a chance with a new guy. With this great "chemistry". and you dump him for someone that broke your heart. He only wants you back because you found someone else. I'm sorry to say this, but you are wrong here. You just have to fix it. You still use the term ex. Doesn't sound like you really want him. If you're giving him another chance, why are you still calling him your ex? Things that make you go hummmmmmmmmmmmmm? I don't mean to be harsh. But you are wrong. Fix it before it's too late. IF you can. Link to post Share on other sites
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