naiveme Posted February 12, 2007 Share Posted February 12, 2007 Hi, Bit of background. Been chatting to girl for about 2 months now, been meeting up for last month (at least once a week). Both in mid 20s and met through dating site. We chat online/text everyday. And when we meet it is not normally just a quick drink. e.g a few weekends ago she stayed over on a Saturday night and we spent the next day together too. Nothing has happened in way of kiss or anything. She has had a few long term relationships but been single since April. I think she is slightly scared to move to next level in relationship as I do not think it is that natural to spend so much time together on a friendship basis. I did try and ask her where we stand but she kind of skirted around the question. Then phoned me later and said sorry for messing around and that she did not have courage to say what she really wanted to say. I have kind of assumed this is that she likes me and possibly would want more but does not want to commit to anything. But back to the question. I know she does not look favourably on Valentines Day and the commercialisation of it, so not getting her any gift or asking her out. But I would like to send her a little sms message. Do you think that would be a good idea? Also any ideas of what to put in it? Just want to get across that I like her without it being too loved up so to speak. Link to post Share on other sites
KT_E_M Posted February 13, 2007 Share Posted February 13, 2007 Well, that's kind of a hard thing to give any specific advice on considering i don't know you both... but.. I suppose i would be inclined to write something along these lines: "They say Valentines Day is all about the gifts; the chocolate, the sappy, lovey-dovey $5 cards, the flowers and the champagne. They make it sound like without spending a whole bunch of money in celebration, you've got nothing. But I don't agree. For me... Valentines Day doesn't have to cost a thing, cause as long as I'm with you... and that's all I need to make me happy any day." That's the best i got... assuming of course you're at least gonna see her on Valentines Day. Link to post Share on other sites
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