JD Posted November 1, 2002 Share Posted November 1, 2002 I heard on a radio program that while men are easily turned on by what they see where as women are more turned on by relationships. From a man's point of view, I have to agree with the visual thing. Even a photo of a naked woman gets my hormones get all fired up. But the radio program stated that the sight of a naked man does not turn on women. On the contrary, the sight of a naked guy can easily turn off women, depending on the situation. They have to know the guy and feel a certain closeness to him before they get aroused. Is this true? I can remember as a high school kid how some girls liked to spy on the boys in the locker room while we showered and changed. They would look through a keyhole in a second door to the locker room that was unused and always locked. I know it sounds like a cheap take off on Porkeys, but this did occur. I also remember another locker room event that occurred when I was about 30. I had just taken my swimming suit off and just finished drying myself off when I noticed some guys were holding the door to the locker room wide open. Just outside the locker room was a woman looking in and getting a full view of me naked. She seemed to smile when I noticed her and the situation. Perhaps these girls in high school were just curious about seeing naked boys. Perhaps this woman just enjoyed catching a free glimpse of me in the buff. But it got me to wondering how women view a naked guy. I asked a girl friend of mine and she said to look at the web page called: Visual Sensations for Women http://www.visualwomen.coccozella.com/contents.html Is this really how women think or is this the exception? Link to post Share on other sites
Ally Boo Posted November 1, 2002 Share Posted November 1, 2002 Sure, I find certain guys attractive. But it doesn't make me wanna hump a tree or something. For me, I'm more turned on if I am in a solid relationship. I become a different person in bed. Now, that I am so sexually attracted to my bf, and I truely love him...I will look at guys to an extent, but no other man can turn me on. So I think that program was right. And the ONLY way like porn or anything can turn me on..that involves a male, is if I'm imagining it's him. Link to post Share on other sites
Tod Posted November 25, 2002 Share Posted November 25, 2002 This kind of reminds me of when I was on the schools swim team. There was a girl who used to work in the boy's locker room as a towel girl while we showered and changed. There would be no way a guy would be allowed to work in the girls locker room when the girls were changing, but it was considered ok the other way around. I suppose it was for this reason. Yet she certainly seemed to get a kick out of seeing us naked. She used to boast to other girls how she gets to see us naked, which for really bothered my girlfriend. Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted November 25, 2002 Share Posted November 25, 2002 Where did you go to school??? Did this girl's parents know she was working around naked men??? This is not normal and school officials in most areas in the United States could be jailed for permitting a girl to work in a locker room where men were stripping naked. The fact that she boasted about the experience is proof positive that she did not have the maturity to handle this kind of job. If you tell me the name of the school and the school system, I promise you it will be featured on the network news in the next day or two. Link to post Share on other sites
Tod Posted December 2, 2002 Share Posted December 2, 2002 Wow!! Not sure why you're so upset. I don't see anything that wrong with a girl enjoying seeing some guys naked. First of all, she was looking at boys her own age. It's not that she was a little girl looking at a bunch of older men. Second, she was not forced to see anyone naked. This was something she chose to do. As far as I know, it didn't bother any of the guys. She was kind of cute and there aren't to many guys who object to a cute girl looking at them. Perhaps the only ones this was a problem for were some overly jealous girlfriends. But then again, they always have something to get upset about. Link to post Share on other sites
Nice Posted December 2, 2002 Share Posted December 2, 2002 Hey tony, Your so mad right now... you going to rat on the school? Link to post Share on other sites
Confused610 Posted January 1, 2003 Share Posted January 1, 2003 I don't know if this is right- This is just my view on this topic It could be because of hormonal differences or what, or it could be that mens sexual organs are outside of there body and it's easy for a male to know how to please himself. I really don't know. But personally, I don't really look around and go "hey that guy is HOT" , although I know ugly for hot, I just don't really care about looks to the extent that it's a top priority, it's defenitly a priority (as much as people say it isn't) But mind over body ALWAYS. Link to post Share on other sites
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