Young&Sexy21 Posted February 15, 2007 Share Posted February 15, 2007 It's been a month and a half since she left and I still feel like if she cameback tomorrow it'd be like we never skipped a beat. I want to get over her. she did her best to field my questions and give me some kind of closure. But I'm pissed off. The more I don't think aboout her and the relationship and the break up, the more I feel resentment and bitterness towards no particular target. I have not dealt with this properly because I feel the only way I could get this off my chest would be to meet with her and yell. But that wouldn't slove anything. How do I vent? How do I cope? How do I move on? Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted February 15, 2007 Share Posted February 15, 2007 There is a reason its called a rollercoaster ride from hell. Up, down, love, hate, sad, happy, weak today, strong tomorrow. Day is night and night is day. What can she tell you tomorrow that would change how you feel? Probably nothing. Anytime a relationship ends it needs to be mourned and that means your emotions will be all over the place..sometimes minute by minute. Hour by hour. Day by day. Month by month. Sometimes its best not to fight it and just FEEL it. As the saying goes: when in hell..keep going. In other words even when you can't see the light at the end of the tunnel you will find it eventually. Link to post Share on other sites
Ukwizard Posted February 16, 2007 Share Posted February 16, 2007 Hi Young, Not absolute sure what your intentions are, but yelling, and feeling angry isn`t the part of it. It won`t help, and it will drive her away for good. Id be yourself, and I know thats hard to say. Any bitterness, anger resentment will work against you. hell, I ve been there. Try to live your life day by day, and work towards a goal, and future for yourself. Its easy to say, and I know its hard for you to do. Try to keep busy, and hang out with close friends, and family that can keep you on track. I learned, and got help from my younger brother who had more experience from dating that I everu did. Look to the future my friend, and don`t linger on the past too much, because that only causes bitterness, and regret. Link to post Share on other sites
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