bowbunny Posted February 15, 2007 Share Posted February 15, 2007 I would like to know what makes a man irresistible. What creates this kind of attraction inside of a man? Link to post Share on other sites
monkey00 Posted February 15, 2007 Share Posted February 15, 2007 your questions appear to contradict each other...or maybe im just confused at this hour.... Link to post Share on other sites
Island Girl Posted February 15, 2007 Share Posted February 15, 2007 Do you mean what causes a man to be irresistible to women or what causes attraction within the man toward woman? Link to post Share on other sites
monkey00 Posted February 15, 2007 Share Posted February 15, 2007 Do you mean what causes a man to be irresistible to women or what causes attraction within the man toward woman? neither of you are making sense...hahahahaha. my apologies, just a little crazy tonight Link to post Share on other sites
Author bowbunny Posted February 15, 2007 Author Share Posted February 15, 2007 sorry I would like to know what qualities that a man has that make's him so irresistible toward a worman. Link to post Share on other sites
a4a Posted February 15, 2007 Share Posted February 15, 2007 sorry I would like to know what qualities that a man has that make's him so irresistible toward a worman. Show a woman that she means something to you...... the gift of knowing how and when..... time, effort, planning......... Link to post Share on other sites
dropdeadlegs Posted February 15, 2007 Share Posted February 15, 2007 a4a is onto it. Making me feel wanted, desired, appreciated, and like I'm the only woman in the world for him...in a nutshell. Link to post Share on other sites
elijahBailey Posted February 15, 2007 Share Posted February 15, 2007 a4a is onto it. Making me feel wanted, desired, appreciated, and like I'm the only woman in the world for him...in a nutshell. So even if he's fugly but has all those qualities, you would still find him irresistable? Link to post Share on other sites
Motor35 Posted February 15, 2007 Share Posted February 15, 2007 So even if he's fugly but has all those qualities, you would still find him irresistable? DEFINATELY!! The love of my life doesn't attract tons of women, BUT I see him as the sexiest man alive. I adore him and he is irresistable to me. Even though he is a prick and we aren't doing well. hehehe Link to post Share on other sites
dropdeadlegs Posted February 15, 2007 Share Posted February 15, 2007 So even if he's fugly but has all those qualities, you would still find him irresistable? I'm ugly so it wouldn't matter. Link to post Share on other sites
a4a Posted February 15, 2007 Share Posted February 15, 2007 So even if he's fugly but has all those qualities, you would still find him irresistable? Most likely yes.... I knew a man that had these traits... he had no interest in me. He was not good looking... but he took the time to focus on things, plan, put effort into them, cared to do things right......... he was not a romantic interest for me - I am taken. But I did admire these things about him. A man also has to have some sense about him and dealbreakers like abuse, drugs, or being chronically unemployed can make these good traits fall deep into the shadows...... But an average looking guy with a stable life... I think he can learn how, when, effort, timing, and planning and be irresistable indeed. Link to post Share on other sites
elijahBailey Posted February 15, 2007 Share Posted February 15, 2007 ohhh ok, so maybe those were the things that Diane Keaton and Mia Farrow saw in Woody Allen. Lucky guy. Link to post Share on other sites
a4a Posted February 15, 2007 Share Posted February 15, 2007 ohhh ok, so maybe those were the things that Diane Keaton and Mia Farrow saw in Woody Allen. Lucky guy. no they liked his pedophile side. He probably attracted them because of his status, artsy thing he had going on..... the unattractive artsy genius reputation he had..... name dropper. I found him annoying. celebs have status in their attraction portfolio.... even the ugly ones like Devito.... but I imagine him probably having some skills at woman wooing. Link to post Share on other sites
Mustang Sally Posted February 15, 2007 Share Posted February 15, 2007 Yeah, all that nice stuff that was mentioned above. But truthfully, I've got to have a physical attraction to the guy also for him to be irresistable. Otherwise he's a nice guy, but not irresistable. And I don't mean that he has to look like Johnny Depp, either (although that would be exciting!). Too good looking could be intimidating. I'm just an average looking gal, myself. But I have to have some physical chemistry for him. I dated a guy in college for a couple of years that was all those nicey-nice things. But I really had no notable physical attraction to him. He wasn't bad looking, just no chemistry for me. I thought maybe I could "fake it till you make it" with him because he was such a nice guy - smart, respectful, etc. But no dice. I finally cut him loose because it wasn't fair to either of us. So being nice is important. But it doesn't hurt if you have a tight ass, either! Link to post Share on other sites
Author bowbunny Posted February 18, 2007 Author Share Posted February 18, 2007 is there any men out there that can give me their feelings about this? Link to post Share on other sites
alphawife71 Posted February 18, 2007 Share Posted February 18, 2007 Show a woman that she means something to you...... the gift of knowing how and when..... time, effort, planning......... i whole heartedly agree with you a4a. all a man has to do is just include you, think of you, plan a little and put a little effort into things. it's really not that hard. heck, some, like mine, do more for their cars than for women.... Link to post Share on other sites
luvstarved Posted February 18, 2007 Share Posted February 18, 2007 I dunno...when I think of irresistible I think of those guys that I knew I really shouldn't sublimate my ego for, but did anyway and sadly they weren't the great nice thinking of you types...well not in the end... rather, the confident, intelligent, well-rounded, witty, flattering charmers that were fantabulous in bed. I married one like that and went into a deep depression over another. The other thing they had in common, not surprisingly, was that they were quite prolific womanizers... Link to post Share on other sites
alextop30 Posted February 18, 2007 Share Posted February 18, 2007 ok I have opinion but I can tell you but I am definatelly not a proffecional with chicks/women. I have to say that there is this x factor that when a woman sees that man she feels like - this is the one for her. Well I havent had that experiance yet but I believe that it is not any physical quality but it is the person as a whole and if you fit perfectly like two halfs of a medalion. I kinna want to describe the fit - the fit is in every place emotional, philosophical, and sexual. I believe that all of those qualities the inner and the outer such as the looks make men irresistable to women. __________________________________________________________________ If you fit perfectly the attraction can be compared to the flames or a fire that never burns out. Link to post Share on other sites
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