forreasonsunknown Posted February 15, 2007 Share Posted February 15, 2007 well we stop talking for a while. then she decided to randomly talk to me one day and we started talking again. we talked for a couple days then she started giving me the cold shoulder and i told her i wasnt ready to be friends. so then we started talking over a week ago. on friday night i called her and we talked for like an hour and i asked her if she wanted to hang out on saturday. she said yeah but then something came up (of course). so then i talked to her for a while saturday night and asked her to come over for dinner and movie on wednesday (valentines day). she said yes but then gave me a reason why she couldnt and i know she blew me off but whatever. so then last night i went off on her and she blocked me on aim and deleted me on myspace. i'm ready to move on, i'm having trouble finding somebody else though. i miss her everyday and i hate leaving off like this. i feel that if you feel a way about somebody you should tell them. i wrote her a long note pretty much telling her no matter what ill care about her and she could hate me all she wants but it doesnt matter im not gonna hate her back. i really wish we were talking and we could even hang out just as friends but i dont know. i think this is the end of the road but i have a gut feeling that if i move on she'll be back. any advice? Link to post Share on other sites
Author forreasonsunknown Posted February 15, 2007 Author Share Posted February 15, 2007 so what noww Link to post Share on other sites
BeenAround_N_Back Posted February 15, 2007 Share Posted February 15, 2007 Sometimes it's human nature to want what you cannot have, hence she may want you back once you have moved on. But it is best that you move on for your sake. You deserve better, not someone who is dilly dallying. Link to post Share on other sites
Author forreasonsunknown Posted February 15, 2007 Author Share Posted February 15, 2007 its jus like sometimes she says stuff and it plays with my head when she says stuff like i read ur notes the other day and cried. yet shes after someone who is too old for her and she think he likes her and he doesnt. so for right now, she hates me and i'm nowhere on her radar. is it wrong to want revenge?? Link to post Share on other sites
the_total_package Posted February 15, 2007 Share Posted February 15, 2007 if a girl gets to the point where she is blocking you from email and AIM...leave her alone. The reason she is crying and such is because she feels bad for you for one, because you are so creepy, desperate, and obsessed and she can't believe she ever went out with you and can't get you to leave her the F**k alone. Her 'blowing you off' is she clearly doesn't want to get together. She tells you that in the first place she will probably so you'll stop begging her to get together. So...the first time she cancelled, blew you off, whatever...should have LOGICALLY been your first clue to not ask her to get together anymore. Why does she deserve revenge? She broke up with you because she no longer wanted to be with you. This doesn't make her a bad person. It makes her a GOOD person to you AND her because she wasn't going to continue a relationship 1. with a guy she didn't love and 2. to lead a guy on she wasn't in love with on by staying in a fascade of a relationship. DUDE MOVE ON. These type of posts seriously scare me about people, go watch Fatal Attraction, it will show you how you're being right now, leave her the he** alone like she's asked. It doesn't matter who she is pursuing and whatnot, obviously she still wants this other older guy and not you because you have been so needy and desperate she already knows she could walk right back and have you easily if she wanted. But...any chance of reconciling now is GONE because you've shown her how creepy and needy and desperate you are. Just being straight with 'ya. Link to post Share on other sites
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