Dadaal Posted February 15, 2007 Share Posted February 15, 2007 I think Iam in love with my spanish teacher - she is very pretty. I think she does love or has feelings for me, too. Last night, she always says my name........... I counted almost 8 times - she was calling another student and instead of saying his name - she said mine. She distributed Valentine's chocolates but at the end she gave me the whole packet.......... wierd? Any ideas. Both of us are adults, though. Link to post Share on other sites
the_total_package Posted February 15, 2007 Share Posted February 15, 2007 I taught a class at a community college and a nontraditional student my age had a huge crush on me, he asked me out at the end of the course (but I wasn't interested.) But if I was interested, at the end of the course I was fair game, didn't see a problem with that. So maybe the last day of class ask her out (in Spanish to really impress her) for coffee or a drink or something. But wait until the class is over, because if you start dating now, what if it goes wrong, one of you breaks up or isn't interested after all or whatever....then you still have to go to class and see the teacher every week. So....patience is a virtue here. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Dadaal Posted February 15, 2007 Author Share Posted February 15, 2007 The thing is - she has a ring which indictes that shes married. I've huge crash on her but don't know how - cause at least I want to clear my throat than doing nothing. Link to post Share on other sites
the_total_package Posted February 15, 2007 Share Posted February 15, 2007 sometimes single women just wear rings there. but if it is definitely a wedding ring, don't go there. appreciate that you get to look at a beautiful teacher for the rest of the term, but leave it at that. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Dadaal Posted February 15, 2007 Author Share Posted February 15, 2007 I can't leave it like that - perhaps, I will ask her out....When thing which is worrying me now is that rings. She is really lovely teacher but I love her o death. Link to post Share on other sites
Poboy Posted February 15, 2007 Share Posted February 15, 2007 how old are you two. stop being in fantasy land ... having a relationship with a teacher is a no no in the real world. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Dadaal Posted February 15, 2007 Author Share Posted February 15, 2007 Are you love police? Link to post Share on other sites
the_total_package Posted February 15, 2007 Share Posted February 15, 2007 see after the class, and it is NOT high school, he said they are both adults, she is not his teacher anymore and if they wanted to go out, no problem. What part of that didn't you understand? The problem is to find out if she's married or not, maybe she'll bring up her family or kids sometime during class, then you know for sure. Or at the end of class, just ask her straight out if she's married, if she is then don't proceed, if you ask her then and she is single, then she'll be enthusiastic in letting you know she wants to go out or not. Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted February 15, 2007 Share Posted February 15, 2007 her name isn't Mary Kay LeTourneau by any chance? Link to post Share on other sites
the_total_package Posted February 15, 2007 Share Posted February 15, 2007 maybe you need to go back to school to learn to read? her name isn't Mary Kay LeTourneau by any chance? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Dadaal Posted February 16, 2007 Author Share Posted February 16, 2007 I think that " Alphamale" must have partied in the Hatred Club. Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted February 16, 2007 Share Posted February 16, 2007 I'm glad this is happening to someone else too. I've been flirting with my teacher for over a year; used to email eachother late on weekend nights, always accidentally announce me in class, etc. However, I lost my **** when I was thinking about quitting. I really needed to talk to her but instead I got angry and frustrated with myself. Eventually she started acting somewhat sad around me and I was an insensitive jerk; emailed her and asked what was wrong, told her she's a friend and gave her my number. After I did that she acted hurt and started ignoring me (barely even looked at me or contacted). She also found someone else to flirt with literally the next class; I was crushed. After this I assumed whatever we "had" was dead, but I went in to talk with her after a month of no communication and she suggested we "hook up" more often and walked outside with me, better than I expected. So we recently set up an independent credit together (at her suggestion) and it's going well. However, I still feel some insecurity and hurt that she immediately started flirting with someone else (who talks **** about her, yet brings her things after class). We both speak fast and nervously whenever we talk to one another, and look at eachother like a deer in headlights. I just can't tell how she feels at this point as she goes from making it a point to avoid eye contact, to looking away as soon as I catch her. I'm under the impression that she misses my attention/casual affection as much as I miss hers, as she keeps making efforts to keep me around. Can anyone make sense of this? Is she just a flake that goes from one guy to the next, or is her sudden flirting with this other guy a result of being hurt or not thinking I cared about her (which couldn't be further from the truth). Link to post Share on other sites
Author Dadaal Posted February 17, 2007 Author Share Posted February 17, 2007 The most wonderful thing was last night when I started to remain in class after all the students were gone. I asked her if she was married and she said NO..before I begun asking her another question, another teacher came in and I left. As I was leaving, I saw her looking at me. What should I do next? any advice? Link to post Share on other sites
lovelorcet Posted February 17, 2007 Share Posted February 17, 2007 Learn French maybe... Link to post Share on other sites
westernxer Posted February 17, 2007 Share Posted February 17, 2007 What should I do next? any advice? Ask her out. Or invite her to have coffee with you, like right away. Link to post Share on other sites
justpassingthrough Posted February 17, 2007 Share Posted February 17, 2007 Learn French maybe... Okay, so I'm thinking the Q & A went something like this: Dadaal: Are you married? Spanish Teacher: No. And it didn't go like this: Dadaal: Are you married? Spanish Teacher: VERY. Now go away. Dadaal: Are you married? Spanish Teacher: Yes. What's it to you? I think you see where I'm going: she left the door open. I do agree with others who have said to wait until the class is over, though. Link to post Share on other sites
LN99 Posted February 17, 2007 Share Posted February 17, 2007 I would wait until your class is over. Then let her know your interested. If she isn't, then at least you don't have to face her again. If she is, well then at least nothing is at stake for her or you if you two do get together. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Dadaal Posted February 20, 2007 Author Share Posted February 20, 2007 Learn French maybe... ???? you need to reread the post. Link to post Share on other sites
westernxer Posted February 20, 2007 Share Posted February 20, 2007 Just tell her this... ¿Quieres hacer el amor conmigo esta noche en tu casa? No en mi casa, porque vivo con mi esposa y no le interesa hacer un threeway. Link to post Share on other sites
amerikajin Posted February 20, 2007 Share Posted February 20, 2007 Just get up in front of class and say "Hey baby, you want it...and I'm gonna give it to ya." Works for me. Link to post Share on other sites
loveknot Posted February 27, 2007 Share Posted February 27, 2007 Ask her if she likes sweets Link to post Share on other sites
CardPlay3r Posted February 27, 2007 Share Posted February 27, 2007 Ask her out in spanish Link to post Share on other sites
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