cr8sea Posted February 20, 2007 Share Posted February 20, 2007 Ive been dating this guy for two months now. At first everything was awesome, he was super attentive, would call me often, texted me during the day leaving nice little messages etc. We see each other twice a week because we live in opposites sides of town so thats all we can do. Lately however, he seems to be calling less and less, and seems to be less interested in seeing me. In fact i feel like if i dont call him and ask him if im gonna see him he wouldnt call me to make plans. I am very confused because when we're together everything is great and he seems to be very happy with me. But then when we dont see each other i feel like he doesnt really care whether he's gonna see me or not. Just this friday i asked him if i would see him this weekend and he answer saying he didnt know since he was working. I didnt see how that would affect seeing each other since he only was working three hours. He agreed to come down to see me but somehow i ended up going to his place instead. We also talked about him coming over my place on monday since it was a holiday but then when i called him on monday to ask him what he was gonna do he said he didnt know. I told him to call me if he wanted to come over (even though we had already discussed that i wanted him to come) and he said he would, but he never did. I dont know what to think. I dont know if im expecting too much out of him or maybe he's just getting over me. At first he was all over me, now it seems he's backing out. He swears he isnt, that he loves me and is very happy with me, but his actions make me doubt it. Do you guys think im being overly sensitive? or should i trust my gut? Link to post Share on other sites
norajane Posted February 20, 2007 Share Posted February 20, 2007 Always trust your gut. Back off for a little while and see what happens. Don't be so available and so accommodating. Be busy, do other things. If you don't hear from him, if he doesn't initiate getting together, then you know you're right and he's not so into you as he was. Link to post Share on other sites
LosingIt Posted February 20, 2007 Share Posted February 20, 2007 Gut all the way. It sucks when you don't want to listen to it because it's not what you want...but it's always right. Coincidentally I've dated a lot of girls that really liked me but two months was my limit if I wasn't enamored by them...so they didn't get too hurt. They said they same thing...and yes we DID have fun. But I was looking for a long term relationship and needed someone who really understood me. Link to post Share on other sites
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