my experience in a breakup

[Ghóûl]

this is going to be quite long, but bear with me...

 

i recently broke up with my girlfriend of nearly a year...quite bitterly...through no fault of my own....just my ex girlfriends selfishness...she could only find happiness at the end of a bottle or a joint.

 

 

a very paranoid person, alot of issues in her head, didn't know who her friends were and went with the best going at the time.

Drinks herself till the point of passing out and crashing to the floor, ignoring me at the local club, didn't want to do anything different other than drink piss and smoke drugs, couldn't see life outside of her own square and didn't want to leave the ****ty hole town we live in.

 

 

couldn't take constructive criticizm, if anyone had a joke with her, she took it personally all the time. saying that "the truth comes out in jokes". She always dug a hole for herself and got herself in the most darndest situations....but like any good cat she landed on her feet...didn't know when to stop, nor to begin living her life.

 

it wasn't all like this...the first 3 months were great...

i was moving around looking for work so i only saw her for about a month rounded up out of the 3 months i was away....

 

then depression, suicidal tendencies set in, i wasn't calling home or her, i stuck to myself and i was about to end my life...then i grew balls, i drove 1200kilometers to home and turned up at her house unnanounced and things were different....

 

i explained to her what happened when i was away, she believed me or so i thought.....but as time went by things got more ****ed by the minute

 

then i found out the person i explained earlier on existed inside her...

 

i went away for 2 weeks, then i got a Text message on my phone....she broke up with me, via text message.....goddamn that! but anyways, life goes on, she is drowning in her own guilt and i hope she chokes.

 

cos i have learnt for myself that, in the end, its you who you have to live with....and to think about seriously, i did nothing wrong, a similar thing many guys and gals say....but you know, i deserve to say that.....cos its true.

 

 

thanx for reading my story, i have become a bit of an amateur motivational speaker, so if you got any questions, send me an email <e-mail address removed>

[Tony T]

First, I edited your post to eliminate your email address. Once you confirm your account for this site, you have the option of letting members email you through an anonymous email function on the site which does not reveal personal email addresses.

 

I think you have done the right thing here. I just can't imagine why you stayed in a relationship that was so dysfunctional. Your ex sounds pathetic.

[Ally Boo]

Sounds like you were done REALLY wrong. I'm sorry that happened to you, and I'm glad you saw her true colors in the end. Find a way to work through your anger.

[Ghóûl]

sorry about the email thing, i plead in ignorance, lol

its all good...and i have registered fully now.

 

sorry and thanx

 

 

another couple of things to add to my previous message.

 

before, during or after a breakup, as yourself this...

 

"what did we do before we had Mobile Phones?"

 

in the same way ask yourself this

 

"what did we do before we met this person?"

 

thanx again

[butterflyz]

i realize before i met the sick person that decided he needed to take over my life, it had drama and i wasn't handling life the best way i could. but, i know me and i know i would have found my way home. it may have taken longer, but i am an introspective person.

 

but at least i felt that i wasn't part of some sick game, as i do now. i feel as though i became the mouse in the cat game. and now i have more issues to contend with, more hurt that needs to heal and i don't see life the same way anymore (bleaker). eventually, again, i'll find my way home.

 

but, all in all, i'll take that old life back thank you over being with some sick sick sick person.