NIKI 28 Posted February 20, 2007 Share Posted February 20, 2007 This is to piggy back on if my friend was lying or not. Well.....I've told him to get lost and move on. I mean I know it's all the same, but he keeps calling. Is that a sign that he is crazy?? :confused: Link to post Share on other sites
phyrespryte Posted February 20, 2007 Share Posted February 20, 2007 I don't know about crazy, but I'd definitely be avoiding this guy. Link to post Share on other sites
Author NIKI 28 Posted February 20, 2007 Author Share Posted February 20, 2007 You don't know about crazy........ummmmm but you're telling me to avoid him, but you don't think he's crazy?? Uhhhhh ummmmmmm Okay...... Link to post Share on other sites
phyrespryte Posted February 20, 2007 Share Posted February 20, 2007 Ok how about this... It's not that I don't know if he's crazy or not. I just don't care. Really, why does it matter? Unless you feel threatened and are scared that he'll try to attack you, his calls are meaningless. He probably thinks that you aren't serious about ending things and is just doing what he thinks will get you back. How often does he call? Do you answer his calls? If you keep ignoring him, it's only a matter of time till he'll get a clue and stop calling you. And I'd be avoiding him in general because he's a douche bag. Link to post Share on other sites
Author NIKI 28 Posted February 20, 2007 Author Share Posted February 20, 2007 Hahahhahaaha I like that one. DOUCHE BAG hahahhahaa Well.......he just called me from an unknown number. I really don't answer his calls anymore. OH MY GOSH......he just keeps calling. OH GOSH should I answer Link to post Share on other sites
TheDC Posted February 20, 2007 Share Posted February 20, 2007 Don't answer, every time you do you validate him. Just ignore him and he will go away. Link to post Share on other sites
Author NIKI 28 Posted February 21, 2007 Author Share Posted February 21, 2007 Hey to TheDC before I got online to see this thread, he called me and I was on the other line, so I answered. He says to me how come you haven't answered any of my calls. I said you can't possibly sit here and tell me that you don't know why. I just said to him look I'm on the other line, so goes on about oh so the person on the other line is more important huh?? I'm like HEY!!! Then he says to me I'm coming over, back with a response I tell him NO!!! My mom just is so disgusted with him because she is like he ain't about nothing Nikira, so hey alot of times mothers are right. Well it seems that he isn't getting the picture, but I haven't answered his calls in two days. Link to post Share on other sites
TheDC Posted February 21, 2007 Share Posted February 21, 2007 Hopefully it won't come to you having to get a restraining order but if I were you I'd do my research now and find out what it takes and how long one is effective for in your area. Hopefully if you just cut him out he'll get the point and move on to someone else. But he has all the signs of being a serious stalker. You have to remember that what the stalker is looking for is validation their behaviour is all about themselves. They see a relationship and deep meaning where none exists. The more contact you have with them then the more they feel that connection regardless of what you tell them. If I were you I'd start screening your calls and don't answer the phone for unlisted numbers or numbers you don't recognize. Get and answering machine or and answering service and let everything go to voice mail. Also your outgoing message should just be your number and it shouldn't be in your own voice, have someone else record it for you. Make it simple like "you have reached 123-456-7890 please leave a message." No contact means no contact even unwittingly through your voicemail. Link to post Share on other sites
Author NIKI 28 Posted February 22, 2007 Author Share Posted February 22, 2007 Oh my gosh TheDC I am so scared!!! Now on my other thread I was trying to figure out if he was lying to me about being with someone else, but shoot when I try to cutt it off with this cat. He goes straight belistic!!! He calls me day and night and usually by now a guy would get the picture, but this boy is not. I don't get it. I was liking him, but then he wanted to fake try to play me, so what I did was not answer any of his calls to give him a taste of a real playas medicine. Well.......obviously can take the fire. It's like he can doosh it out, but not take it you know. I just feel so bad because if he would have done right by me we would be okay, but then again I did pray to GOD to reveal him and HE DID... Link to post Share on other sites
TheDC Posted February 23, 2007 Share Posted February 23, 2007 It sounds like you avoided some serious future unpleasantness. Be thankful that he showed his true nature so soon. Link to post Share on other sites
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