Guest Posted February 21, 2007 Share Posted February 21, 2007 Hey all, I've come here an search of what action I should take, something I've been pretty much not had the guts to do since the school year began in August.. There's this girl in my English class who I just have a major crush on. The problem? She doesn't even know I exist. What do I do in a situation like this? Walk up after class and say something like "so, what did you think about that test." While it looks like my only option, I can see it ending in a train crash in so many ways.. Thanks, any help would be great. Link to post Share on other sites
Yamaha Posted February 21, 2007 Share Posted February 21, 2007 It's time for you to step up and be the man she would want you to be if she is interested in you. She will never see you if you continue as you are but you may become a buddy. Is this what you want? You need to take action to move forward and that means letting her know that you like her. You will find out pretty quickly if she returns your feelings and if she doesn't then you will not have wasted time on someone who doesn't feel the same. Link to post Share on other sites
l-o-s-t Posted March 1, 2007 Share Posted March 1, 2007 Consider yourself lucky that you have her in a class, and use that to your advantage. I'm in the same boat as you, but I have no connections at all. Being in the same class gives you some common grounds for initiating conversation. Yamaha is right - it's up to you to make the move. It sucks, but it's the only way to move forward. If you're really freaked out about train-wreaking, you can do what I've been doing - read up on body language if you don't already know about it. Then, read into the situation a bit. Make good, strong eye contact with her, and see what happens. If she smiles back, chances are she's interested. This should give you a good boost of confidence to go on, and opening up should be easier. Take advantage of it right away, if you can. The first time my "crush" smiled in my direction, I was damn near ready to take on the world. Too bad it was a Friday afternoon right before a week long break... Good luck to ya. Link to post Share on other sites
LN99 Posted March 1, 2007 Share Posted March 1, 2007 A sure way to get her to notice you is to start talking to her. Keep it simple at first by saying "hi". Then maybe talk to her about that test or make a comment about the class and see what she says. I know I start to notice a guy if he pays attention to me. If I catch him staring occasionally and then looking away or if he gives me a smile or goes out of his way just to say hi. Then Im on to him....and decide whether or not Im interested. Then it goes into the whole body language thing. If a girl is interested, she will react well to your subtle advances. If she doesn't respond well to them, then at least you know. Better then wondering what if? Link to post Share on other sites
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