10,000 miles from home and cheated on!

[kezla82]

I moved to England from Australia 14 months ago, to be with my english boyfriend. We were planning on him returning to Australia with me perminantly and eventually we were to get married.

 

A few weeks ago I had a feeling tht he was cheating on me. I found it all to be true on the 10th of Feb. I tried talking to him about our situation but he refused.

 

On valentine's night he took off in his car at about 1am. It turns out that he went to her place and spent the night with her. I have been in contact with her but she still maintains that she is not the one he slept with. He sat me down he other night and told me the whole truth about what had been going on. He told me that he had lied to me about who it was he slept with to protect her.

 

I asked him why he slept with her and his answer was that he felt sorry for he because she had just separated form her husband. He also says that he can't help who he has feelings for.

 

I asked him if he values her feelings more than mine and he gave no answer. He says he still loves me and I'm the most important thing to him in the world, but he is just not IN love with me. I'm so confused and alone being so far from home.

 

Yesterday morning he sat me down again and handed me a small jewellry box. Inside it was a white gold and diamond bracelet with entwined hearts on it. He explainded that he gave it to me beacause he still loves me with all of his heart and that we will forever be connected in a special way.

 

What am I supposed to make of it all? I'm so confused. I still really want to stay friends with him but I don't think I'll be able to cope with the fact that I know he will be persuing a relationship with a still married woman whom he cheated on me with. I have told him how I feel but it doesn't seem to register with him.

[Guest]

ahh honey,get your Ozzie backside back home.He isn't worth it!Find someone here,I am sure there are plenty of nice guys out there that won't treat you like this.