lsvteccivichb Posted November 9, 2002 Share Posted November 9, 2002 ok this girl i met 2 weeks ago...she was single she approach me and we starting talking since...one night the conversations were very deep and she asking me very personal questions.. i hear to be challenging to my answers so i was..and se was very turned on and on our first phone conversation she asked what type of girls do I like and I explained what type and she said that shes that type..... the next day we kick it at her place..we were hugged up and holding hands and some chatting going on..so i htink she loves me shes telling me all about her..but now when we talk she throws comments like listen to this song this is our honeymoon songs things like that..and tells me what kind of music to listen 2.. but theres other little comments that trouble me..when she say stuff like..that must be why i dont have a man type of comments..but she calls me all the time and i even call her..but when we kick it together hes all laying on me and holding my hand like she likes it... i dont get it help me out...please e-mail me some advice and what to talk to her about on the phone to make me sound more interested in her...plz help me out... please e-mail me at <e-mail address removed> I am very interested in this girl I don’t want to screw this up…should I call her? I call her almost everyday do you think its too much? Plz help this man out…thanks all! Link to post Share on other sites
clia Posted November 9, 2002 Share Posted November 9, 2002 I have no idea what you are asking. Please clarify. You met her two weeks ago, you call her every day, is that too much? Yes, call her every other day instead. You just met her. Your life outside of her hasn't ended, and you come off as desperate and a pain if you call every single day. You want to know how to make you sound more interested in her? Good God, if you are calling every day, I'm not sure why you think she questions it. If she wants more than that, she sounds fairly clingy. Is that what you want? Other than that, I'm not sure what you are asking. Link to post Share on other sites
Tod Posted November 9, 2002 Share Posted November 9, 2002 As to whether you should call her everyday depends on if the call is long distance or a local call. If it's long distance, it could get costly and you should keep it to the weekend. The rates are lower then. Hope this helps. Link to post Share on other sites
Author lsvteccivichb Posted November 9, 2002 Author Share Posted November 9, 2002 its local like 3 miles from me Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted November 9, 2002 Share Posted November 9, 2002 Don't ever call anybody every day...unless your in a long term relationship. Link to post Share on other sites
Ally Boo Posted November 9, 2002 Share Posted November 9, 2002 OK you've know this girl HOW long and she's talking about Honeymoon songs? WHAT?!?! You think she loves you?!?!? Ok......this girl sounds like a player to me. I know a girl just like this, who gets "engaged" to every guy she dates...within the first few hours to days.... I think this relationship is SCREAMING RUN AWAY!! Oh and about the girl I know....she breaks up with them about a week later. Yeah, she has issues. And YOUR girl reminds me of her! I don't think that anyone with honest intentions would EVER want to move THAT fast! Link to post Share on other sites
butterflyz Posted November 9, 2002 Share Posted November 9, 2002 but you both sound needy and unrealistic. don't listen to anyone. call as often as you want to. if she communicates that it is too much, then back off. sometimes we ruin relationships by playing it "too cool". go with your gut, but talking about honeymoon songs would scare the heck out of me. Link to post Share on other sites
Author lsvteccivichb Posted November 9, 2002 Author Share Posted November 9, 2002 =o Link to post Share on other sites
Author lsvteccivichb Posted November 10, 2002 Author Share Posted November 10, 2002 i havent called her or she hasnt called me in the last 2 days...heh i dont know if she is waiting for me to call..because im waiting for her to call..and i really want to talk to her..i didnt want to call her the last couple of days because i dont want to bugg her...we known one another for like 4 weeks but only have been getting serious for 2 weeks...i dont know what to do..others tell me to tell her whats on my mind..they also say she could me telling me something without telling me..like she may want me to tell her what i think...i dunno i dont know she hasnt called me because shes sick of me ? or waiting on me to call...the last conversations we had were deep..and she enjoyed talking to me...what do you think? should i call or what? Link to post Share on other sites
Author lsvteccivichb Posted November 12, 2002 Author Share Posted November 12, 2002 What do you want to hear and dont want to hear from a guy on phone conversations? its kinda giving me some advice on what to say and not to say to a girl/women on the phone...=o i would appreciate it for any reply's thanks! Link to post Share on other sites
bebop Posted November 13, 2002 Share Posted November 13, 2002 Quote: "I am very interested in this girl I don’t want to screw this up…should I call her? I call her almost everyday do you think its too much? Plz help this man out…thanks all!" Have you actually asked her out on a date?? Doesn't sound like it. And all her hints sound like she is fishing for a more specific 'dating commitment' from you as opposed to phone conversations and hand holding with no 'we are dating" label attached. Basically, ask her out on a date. Link to post Share on other sites
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