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I was wondering do Christians have sexual hangups?

 

Just a question not intended to insult anyone, I am truly curious...

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Curious, is this your hope or was it taught or read somewhere by you?

 

i deduced it from what i know about god. there are no instances with god where what you are seen to do is more important than the state of your heart, your intention, or how you treat other people. god is no respecter of persons - which means god doesn't respect (in an ultimate sense) earthly authority, including the legal/religious authority which says 'because i say so you're now married'. if you commit to each other privately before god, the promise you make is seen and blessed by god and there's no higher authority than that.

 

i'm not saying public commitment isn't nice, it is rather nice and if it gives you the support of your families or makes you happy or makes your commitment feel more secure, i'm sure god's all for it. but i'd bet it's no more valid in the eyes of god than a genuine private commitment.

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I was wondering do Christians have sexual hangups?

 

some christians have sexual hang ups, just like some jews do or some atheists. in other words, what religion you are (or none) isn't the only factor in whether you grow up with or develop a sexual hang up. however some christians are taught (or assume) from an early age that sex is dirty. some of the people who hear that believe it and some don't. those that do are probably more likely to develop a sexual hang up than those that don't.

 

but i suppose it depends on your definition of a hang up. being afraid of sex (or whatever) is only one side of the coin. some people think it's fine to be highly promiscuous and shag people they hardly know. IME, that sort of behaviour is sexual self-harm and is easily as unhealthy as being afraid of sex or thinking it's inherently wrong.

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I was wondering do Christians have sexual hangups?

 

Just a question not intended to insult anyone, I am truly curious...

 

There is the basic no sex outside of marriage and not marrying immediate family. Beyond that it varies. From some sects that teach against birth control or masturbation while for others anything goes between the husband/wife.

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sex is sacred and for your spiriual, mental, emotional and physical wellbeing, it is best kept between two people who are committed to each other and committed to their relationship long term..

I like this

 

I was wondering do Christians have sexual hangups?

 

Just a question not intended to insult anyone, I am truly curious...

Nope, not interested

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I like this

 

I was wondering do Christians have sexual hangups?

 

Just a question not intended to insult anyone, I am truly curious...

Nope, not interested

Hmmm yeah… it could be that adulterers and fornicators have their place in hell?

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Hmmm yeah… it could be that adulterers and fornicators have their place in hell?

 

Romans makes reference to fornication.

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does anyone think Jesus would approve of handjobs?

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does anyone think Jesus would approve of handjobs?

 

What so ever a man thinks… so goes the body and the spirit?

 

So now ask… is it possible to do that without your mind taking you lustfully away..?

 

Just because you may be alone where is your mind taking your heart and soul?

 

Recall……. Matthew 5:28 But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart.

 

Proverbs 23:7 For as he thinketh in his heart, so is he:

 

 

What ever we think comes from our hearts..

 

And what the mind thinks…the body follows… where is our mind taking your body is the question?

 

We are what we eat… Man does not live by bread alone

 

Matthew 4:4

But he answered and said, It is written, Man shall not live by bread alone, but by every word that proceedeth out of the mouth of God.

If we lack spiritual food…we are starved and we are lost.

 

 

Philippians 3:12-41

Not as though I had already attained, either were already perfect: but I follow after, if that I may apprehend that for which also I am apprehended of Christ Jesus.

13 Brethren, I count not myself to have apprehended: but this one thing I do, forgetting those things which are behind, and reaching forth unto those things which are before,

14 I press toward the mark for the prize of the high calling of God in Christ Jesus.

15 Let us therefore, as many as be perfect, be thus minded: and if in any thing ye be otherwise minded, God shall reveal even this unto you.

16 Nevertheless, whereto we have already attained, let us walk by the same rule, let us mind the same thing.

17 Brethren, be followers together of me, and mark them which walk so as ye have us for an ensample.

18 (For many walk, of whom I have told you often, and now tell you even weeping, that they are the enemies of the cross of Christ:

19 Whose end is destruction, whose God is their belly, and whose glory is in their shame, who mind earthly things.)

20 For our conversation is in heaven; from whence also we look for the Saviour, the Lord Jesus Christ:

21 Who shall change our vile body, which it may be fashioned like unto his glorious body, according to the working whereby he is able even to subdue all things unto himself.

 

The bottom line is… keep your mind in check…. The mind will lead the body…could be straight to hell?:lmao:

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Hmmm yeah… it could be that adulterers and fornicators have their place in hell?

Yes, if the adulterers are fully aware of their sins, but still do, probably end up some undesirable place. but if they repent heartfully, and don't do it anymore, God would forgive them. But I won't risk that much :p

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Yes, if the adulterers are fully aware of their sins, but still do, probably end up some undesirable place. but if they repent heartfully, and don't do it anymore, God would forgive them. But I won't risk that much :p

and you know this as 100% fact? do you have any evidence?

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and you know this as 100% fact? do you have any evidence?

Yes, let me ask you this. When people commit adultery, what will they feel? guilty and despise of self. and guilty make them living like a hell

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Yes, let me ask you this. When people commit adultery, what will they feel? guilty and despise of self. and guilty make them living like a hell

 

Some do; many don't.

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Yes, if the adulterers are fully aware of their sins, but still do, probably end up some undesirable place. but if they repent heartfully, and don't do it anymore, God would forgive them. But I won't risk that much :p

 

Right on Lonelybird; we are sinners saved by grace… and thank God we have the ability to repent and strive to be Holy as Christ is Holy.

 

God Bless*

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Some do; many don't.

The diff is a conscience. Some people listen to their conscience.

Some have ignored their conscience for so long it seems to be broken.

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Right on Lonelybird; we are sinners saved by grace… and thank God we have the ability to repent and strive to be Holy as Christ is Holy.

 

God Bless*

do you quote biblical verses during sex?
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do you quote biblical verses during sex?

 

Maybe a God Bless for a penis?

 

:lmao: :lmao: :lmao:

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does anyone think Jesus would approve of handjobs?

There is a story in Genesis where a man half way follows God's instructions and marries his brother's widow. However instead of fulfilling his duty as a husband to provide her with children he masturbates.

 

From this The Roman Catholic Church considers masturbation to be a sin since it does not lead to children. Most other denominations consider the sin as knowingly disobeying God, not the specific act of masturbation.

 

I don't "know" what Christ would say I take the position if I won't do it in front of my mother it is sex thus limited to marraige. Yes I think we are all sinners.

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Didn't God warn us about "spilling the seed"? Would that make masturbation immoral?

 

God I hope not.

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does anyone think Jesus would approve of handjobs?

i think he would, but only if he can watch

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i think he would, but only if he can watch

what about sodomy with a sentient being? would that be out of the question?

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what about sodomy with a sentient being? would that be out of the question?
Jesus Christ is a member of NAMBLA
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Jesus Christ is a member of NAMBLA

If Jesus were to come back today...he'd be gunned down cold by the CIA

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